ok, something i realised that can help all of you in a Relationship, giving your girlfriend full securtiy in a relationship is a bad thing, the more security you give them the more easily they will get bored of the relationship, so instead of saying "wow, tonite was the best night i've had in ages" just say "tonite was fun", from 1st hand experience never give your girlfriend the idea that you wont ever break up with her because she is the best girlfriend you've ever had, keep them on their toes