give this date a chance?

xectxny19x

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Hey guys. I met this girl a few years ago, and we lost contact due to being busy. Genuinely, I was busy. I don't know about her. Every time she suggested we meet up, I had to decline. Finally, I guess she had it or something and started mentioning she was interested in someone she had met, talking about the person to me, what they were like, how much attention the person spends w/ her. (boring) I was out w/ "her" and did not want to hear about all that. I let her go on for about 5 mins., and then politely excused myself. NEXT. I disappear from her life for 1/2 year.

We recently bumped into a local bookstore, and she asked me why I had deleted my email account, & why she wasn't able to call me on my phone. Wondering if I was mad, and she apologized if she had done anything wrong. I told her I was busy and that we were cool.

After some fluff chit-chat, I told her "it was nice seeing you again." Trying to hint that I'd like to go back to my reading. She just sat there next to me and grabbed a book for herself from the shelf in front of me. I spent a few hours there. It was my book reading day, and she just stayed the whole time. I pretty much felt her looking at me every now and then. This girl is really cute/attractive and usually does not play games or flake.

As I got up to leave, I told her I was leaving for the day. She asked me where, and I said home. She then proceeded to ask me if I had anything planned for the rest of the day, and if we could go somewhere. I told her I wanted to just chill at home, give my dogs a haircut and bath. I don't want to go out anywhere for the day. She responded with an "oh."

Anyway, she text me that same night to let her know whenever I'm free and would spend some time with her. I usually don't have much time to spend with this girl, because I'm working on my business and studies. I'm not sure if she's going to be able to handle that without going "so and so spends more time with her" again. :nervous: I hate that sh*t!

But man, cute girl... very much my type physically. Confident. Family-oriented. High achiever. Can take jokes and can shoot one right back. If only, she didn't get all try all tactics to get me to spend more time w/ her and just respect that I don't throw all my time to a girl.
 

The Deacon

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I'd hit it.
 
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