The only way you'll ever get plate is by being firm. It shows that you're confident and you don't have time to put up with their bs. All you have to do is tell them directly what you need from them. If they don't give you the answer you wanted, neg hit and eject immediately. Don't linger around because once they smell fear, you'll lose control over the situation. Remember, it's your right to demand to be treated as equal not as a lesser human being.
There is no equal.
Hypergamy in a nutshell: she believes she's entitled to a superior mate.
She views you as
superior or
inferior. You're viewed as inferior and it ain't happening....
Looks, money, status (attractiveness, education, popularity) .....you better outgun her in at least two of those áreas.
Same with
interest level. Hers better be higher than yours. At least she better believe it is.
If your talking about pick up. Your frame had better place you above her.
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You're the CEO, she's the employee
You're the oak tree, she's the squierel
You're the island, she is the waves
You're the teacher, she's the student
You're the MAN, she the woman
Act accordingly