Give another chance?Or Drop Her?

[yankees13]

Was supposed to go out today at NOON.. I call the girl like i said i will, to agree on a place where we would meet at 10:30... I call she tells me, i was supposed to call Saturday Night to agree on a place...I told her no, i said i will call Saturday night or Sunday morning..Told her she doesnt listen good lol Blah Blah... She tells me she cant at noon because her and her mom are going out in little bit, she thought we wouldnt go out because i didnt call last night... I was like so what time?

She said at 5. I said fine, ill call you between 300, and 330 so you can tell me where we meeting because i dont know.. Bye

I call twice between 300 and 3:30 she doesnt pick up.. Was getting pissed because its real disrespectul, and doesnt have the decency to call me and tell me shes busy doing something or cant..

Called again at 630, didnt pick up.. Didnt leave a message, (I dont leave messages).... Now what do i do? BTW on Friday she said we can go out on Sunday, i told her i will only agree to it, if you promise that i will see you.. Her words " I Promise"

So now i see 2 options

#1.. Never call again, ignore her erase her # ( Would rather not do it, but will if I SHOULD)

#2.. She's always online at work, message her and tell her.. That i found it real disrespectful that she cancelled on me just like that, and you should have the decency to call me and let me know that you cant or your doing something else or whatever so i wont feel stuck and can make plans with someone else if you cant makeit..You agreed, wait (You promised) to see me, and you broke that promise, i dont disrespect you like that, and you definitely shouldnt disrespect me like that.. (Too harsh?)

She probably gonna catch a attitude after reading this or apologize, and say something came up etc.

After that im planning to tell her" The only way you can make it up to me is by seeing me today, and giving me a kiss, if not forget it.. ?

Opinions? Please

 

[rben69]

Ok, one thing I'm not sure about, had you called her before then and asked her out and she said "Call me saturday to see where were meeting"?

If that's the case, then shes probably just playing, I don't see any problem organising where your gonna meet the first time you ask her out, and she shouldn't either, unless she's just playing around.

You could of said "Well, why don't we just organize where were gonna meet now?", If you hear any b.s like, ummm... ahhh..., then say "Well, I have to go, if you wanna get together, call me, seeya" and hang up.

When you call her, you should tell her where your gonna meet, and she has 2 choices, either come with you and have fun.... or don't... and you can go meet other girls.

Hmm, I would probably choose option 1, I think that if you did the second one, that will probably just piss her off, but wait for the opinions of other guys first to see what they say.

-Ben

 

[MDgood]

Ok, I wouldn't bother calling her, at least just yet. Let her call you. If she's interested in you she she'll feel bad that she messed up, if she actualyl messed up and wasn't trying to blow you off. Also, don't diss her via IM, say it to her face, then you also get the pleasure of watching her squirm!

As a total unrelated editorial here, I've noticed that I've seemed to develop a "screw women" attitude over the past week or so. Hmmmm...

 

[ChevyLover]

I agree with MDgood - don't call her, let her call you. Forget about her for now.

If she hasn't called in like a week, call her, and tell her that she should come with you to the abc coffee shop at 3pm on sunday or whatever - give her a when and where and let her decide yes or no, not well this is a good place or this or that or blah blah blah - have you ever seen a woman shop or get ready to go somewhere. This species of human is not good at making decisions, so you gotta decide where, and when you two are going to meet before you call her. Don't "decide on it together". That shows her that you are indecisive, supplicating and unsure - qualities boys, not men portray.


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