Girls will always motivate me

[Thebestthereeveris]

Idk where people get this idea from working out or money like do it for yourself but to me getting hot girls will always be a primary factor and I’m not afraid to admit it. This doesn’t mean I will give my money or attention to any hot chick as that would actually make me NOT get the girl but it does motivate me to get in better shape and have higher status in this world. Just watched Dan bilzerians insta video and it motivated tf out of me seeing all these tight hot young girls with perfect bodies and pretty faces and to have a bunch of them? Jeez made me realize I rly ain’t getting sh1t even if I am getting laid consistently with attractive or what I thought was attractive girls. Like a guy who thinks he’s balling on an$250000 salary hanging out with someone who has hundreds of millions of dollars. Different levels to this game. Time to step our **** up boys

 

[Dr.Suave]

Nothing wrong with hot girls being a motivation as long as you also enjoy other things in life.

 

[Gamisch]

Nothing wrong with hot girls being a motivation as long as you also enjoy other things in life.

I respectfully disagree. Women as a byproduct is fine but as the main motivation is not a good thing. Women and female behavior are WAY too volatile to count on.

On a deeper level you gotta be inspired by your own motivation, and women, like I said before will become a byproduct. You living a dope life due internal motivation will make sure your interactions and confidence with women are genuine. It will also keep woman around longer when they know its NOT about them.

Imo every external motivation is bad, even family. Because everything that's external can be taken away from you, while internal motivation is something you'll always carry with you in your heart and soul.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Idk where people get this idea from working out or money like do it for yourself but to me getting hot girls will always be a primary factor and I’m not afraid to admit it. This doesn’t mean I will give my money or attention to any hot chick as that would actually make me NOT get the girl but it does motivate me to get in better shape and have higher status in this world. Just watched Dan bilzerians insta video and it motivated tf out of me seeing all these tight hot young girls with perfect bodies and pretty faces and to have a bunch of them? Jeez made me realize I rly ain’t getting sh1t even if I am getting laid consistently with attractive or what I thought was attractive girls. Like a guy who thinks he’s balling on an$250000 salary hanging out with someone who has hundreds of millions of dollars. Different levels to this game. Time to step our **** up boys

At some point, most men realize that bimbo´s and their pvssies are not supposed to be the driving force in a mans life.

But you are still young, its okay.

 

[Deranged]

To get a little more nuanced here. When you're out and about, in the zone, doing your king activities and you catch a dime giving you that look. Never gets old. Gives you a little extra stride in that step. Shvt, sometimes it will temporarily make you feel infallible.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

That will never be motivation enough to be anything more than average because when times get tough and it becomes hard to do, only internal motivation will drive you enough to push through it.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Idk where people get this idea from working out or money like do it for yourself but to me getting hot girls will always be a primary factor and I’m not afraid to admit it. This doesn’t mean I will give my money or attention to any hot chick as that would actually make me NOT get the girl but it does motivate me to get in better shape and have higher status in this world. Just watched Dan bilzerians insta video and it motivated tf out of me seeing all these tight hot young girls with perfect bodies and pretty faces and to have a bunch of them? Jeez made me realize I rly ain’t getting sh1t even if I am getting laid consistently with attractive or what I thought was attractive girls. Like a guy who thinks he’s balling on an$250000 salary hanging out with someone who has hundreds of millions of dollars. Different levels to this game. Time to step our **** up boys

The thing is not every guy gets to a point wheere they have enough abundance with women.. When you do get to that point, you realize, you're really not doing it for anyone else at that point.. because you have the women, your cup is overflowing with sex.. and now its just you don't think about sex or women as much.. sure when you go out, you're almost second nature is to talk to and pick up women.. but now your goals and things are motivated by themselves and not by women.

Until that point, I think most men use girls as motivation.. and some men use the competition against other men as motivation.

 

[The Duke]

The compliments I get from women about being in good shape give me that extra push to keep eating right and going to the gym. Working out/Eating right is 85% for me and my goals, the other 15% is about an ego boost that women provide.

I'd smile like a sly fox when I took my shirt off in front of some new girl I was about to have sehx with and she was impressed.

Looking good is in your best interest. Just don't make wanting to impress others the entire reason you do what you do. You'll never be happy.

 

[manfrombelow]

I respectfully disagree. Women as a byproduct is fine but as the main motivation is not a good thing. Women and female behavior are WAY too volatile to count on.

On a deeper level you gotta be inspired by your own motivation, and women, like I said before will become a byproduct. You living a dope life due internal motivation will make sure your interactions and confidence with women are genuine. It will also keep woman around longer when they know its NOT about them.

Imo every external motivation is bad, even family. Because everything that's external can be taken away from you, while internal motivation is something you'll always carry with you in your heart and soul.

I'm on Gamisch's side on this particular topic.

Women are fun to deal with a.k.a "The Game" but it's a wrongful and dangerous mindset if you see them as motivators for your life.

Your motivation should always be your purpose/mission, be it your career, a Ph.D. you're doing, your business (no matter how modest), a book you're writing (no matter if it's good enough to get published or not), your passion to dive to the depth of the ocean,.... etc... Something that thrives you to achieve great things as a human being, physically or metaphorically.

Women are not, cannot, and never will be your correct/rightful motivations in life.

Please swallow this, accept this, and stop trying to re-invent the fvcking wheel, OP.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

after taking time away from this post (didnt even remember writing it) women as your main motivator is bull****. Fulfilling your potential and pushing yourself to the limit and seeing what your made of and making something of yourself is the SH1T. Women will obviously come as a side effect, higher quality women at that.