Girls who talk about famous guys in front of you

[becker]

Has anyone here been around a girl who talks about famous guys and how so and so is hot and another is cute, etc.? What kind of girl is this? Is this a red flag to anyone? Let me know what your experiences have been with this, if any.

Perhaps this is a signal that she's not satisfied with her current relationship?

 

[Duke]

Yeah, I know tons of em' and most have flavors of the week. The chicks I know that do this are single, and they are probably signalling that they ARE indeed single and sexually discriminating.
Any other ideas?

 

[BrWnSugaMan]

This tends to be a characteristic of younger, more imature women.

 

[Walden]

She's talking about men she's attracted to to say that she isn't frigid.

It's a green flag.

 

[tiburon]

I agree ith brwnsugaman

this women tend to be inmature and i hate that shyt...they do it onpurpose too..what a coincidence you were there just to hear it..yeah right i hate this girls becasue they are inmature...but i get them back always....when they start doing that i just pick another one ugly or fine i dont care and i scream "yo baby yo baby yo." or say "damn she is Fine"..you should see their reactions.....

Tiburon

 

[T.T. Boy]

My gf pulls this shyt on me every day. I retaliate by discussing the myriad ways in which I would violate "Lizzie McGuire".

 

[Chief]

This reminds me of a good opener...

Allright...so you got her phone number and your ready to call her and ask her out. When she answers the phone say "Hello this is Brad Pitt (or whoever) and I was wondering if you would like to go out with me" You'll have to improvise from there depending on what she says. Generally, she'll be laughing and maybe say yes of course. You can tell her you'll have your limo or private jet pick her up at _insert specific time and day_ Ask her if she will be able to handle being seen with you and all the cameras and flashing lights etc...

Usually works like magic...Good Luck!

 

[MR_PERFECT]

When I was 24, I dated a 22 year-old that was like this. My first night in her room, we go in, she closes the door. On the back of the door were two posters, one of Mark McGrath and the other of Will Smith.

 

[SamePendo]

No offense, but if someone's chat topic is if (someone famous) is hotter than another one, means she has nothing more interesting to do than think about that.

 

[BobbDobbs]

Originally posted by SamePendo
No offense, but if someone's chat topic is if (someone famous) is hotter than another one, means she has nothing more interesting to do than think about that.

I would say that is a hasty conclusion. Not everybody is serious 24/7.

 

[sAxyguy83]

Like guys don't talk about hot female celebs. It's a natural human instinct to want to spread the seeds around as much as possible (not just guys, either). When somebody isn't doing this in reality, the use fantasy to satisfy the urge. Celebrities make an easy choice b/c they are universally recognized as attractive and desirable, they are a "target", so to speak, used by lots of people, and at the same time they are sufficiently remote that there is little, if any, feeling of guilt over this fantasy cheating.

Just my take on it...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

1. What is the chance of your GF meeting the guy?
2. What is the chance of the guy being available and intered in her?
3. Why are you afraid, don't you think about the hotties on the screen? Afraid to bring it up?

 

[becker]

Wow, I wasn't expecting to get so many responses to this post. I think that it's certainly not about being afraid of this famous person stealing a girl from me, but more about what it means that she's bringing up this stuff in front of you. If she talks about these guys, is it more like a shield saying "I like this type of guy, so if you don't look like him, forget it because you're not my type", or is she saying "I'm available, despite having a BF"? This one girl with a BF was talking about guys she thinks are hot, and I responded with "you already have a BF, no cheating", just to see what she says, and she said "but it's 'X"".

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

Originally posted by becker
Wow, I wasn't expecting to get so many responses to this post. I think that it's certainly not about being afraid of this famous person stealing a girl from me, but more about what it means that she's bringing up this stuff in front of you. If she talks about these guys, is it more like a shield saying "I like this type of guy, so if you don't look like him, forget it because you're not my type", or is she saying "I'm available, despite having a BF"? This one girl with a BF was talking about guys she thinks are hot, and I responded with "you already have a BF, no cheating", just to see what she says, and she said "but it's 'X"".

You sound a bit insecure bro. If you were confident in your life and your DJism, it shouldn't matter who the heck she's saying is sexxy, hot, or whatever.

When chics do this, I usually come up with some C/F response. I dated a 23 year old who had a Justin Timberlake poster in her bedroom. It threw me back for a second. I neg/hit her how she was like a 13 year old groupy.

She laughed it off and ranted about how "FINE" he was.

So I responded: "Yeah, he's a pretty hot guy, if I were a girl, I'd probably f*ck him too. Hell, forget about being a girl, I'd f*ck him right now!"

With this C/F response, you just established that you are a funny guy who doesn't take his life or his "macho-ness" too seriously. It also shows that you are more mature than the average guy she dates that get jealous or pissy about her little crush on a celeb.

Let her have those crushes. You are a confident DJ that doesn't get bothered by these little things. She's ultimately with you right? You must have did something that attracted her to you in the first place. I dont think being jealous about some celeb crush was one of those things that attracted her to you.

 

[becker]

I think you misread my post, because it's not my GF or anything saying that stuff, but a girl I know. Plus, it doesn't bother me, I'm just wondering what you guys think that this sort of talk means, if anything. It's unclear to me whether it means that a girl is more interested, or less interested when she talks about this stuff, sort of like when a girl talks to you about relationships and asks whether you have a GF, she's almost definitely interested...

 

[ShortyBrown]

Originally posted by becker
Has anyone here been around a girl who talks about famous guys and how so and so is hot and another is cute, etc.? What kind of girl is this? Is this a red flag to anyone? Let me know what your experiences have been with this, if any.

Perhaps this is a signal that she's not satisfied with her current relationship?

Take this with a grain of salt. If any self respecting girl with a good imagination (like me and my Enrique Iglesias daydream ) talks to you about famous fellas, she's just indulging in a harmless fantasy. It's got nothing to do with her being dissatified with her current situation. Heck talk to her about which females celebs you think are hot.

 

[becker]

Re: Re: Girls who talk about famous guys in front of you

Originally posted by ShortyBrown
Take this with a grain of salt. If any self respecting girl with a good imagination (like me and my Enrique Iglesias daydream ) talks to you about famous fellas, she's just indulging in a harmless fantasy. It's got nothing to do with her being dissatified with her current situation. Heck talk to her about which females celebs you think are hot.

ShortyBrown, I'm assuming you're a girl. It's nice to hear some feedback from women on this. However, do you think that it's a bit general to say that all girls don't mean much when they say stuff like this, or is it more likely that they might actually have some other signal they're trying to convey?

 

[Bonhomme]

Good one, HYPNOTIQ!

 

[ShortyBrown]

Re: Re: Re: Girls who talk about famous guys in front of you

Originally posted by becker
ShortyBrown, I'm assuming you're a girl. It's nice to hear some feedback from women on this. However, do you think that it's a bit general to say that all girls don't mean much when they say stuff like this, or is it more likely that they might actually have some other signal they're trying to convey?

I don't think so at all. Of course there is one or two oddballs, like that gal that broke into Brad Pitt's house years ago.

I don't think that there's a hidden agenda to having crushes on male celebs. Just like there's no hidden agenda about guys indulging in porn. It's harmless fun.

 

[Quick]

Originally posted by becker
Wow, I wasn't expecting to get so many responses to this post. I think that it's certainly not about being afraid of this famous person stealing a girl from me, but more about what it means that she's bringing up this stuff in front of you. If she talks about these guys, is it more like a shield saying "I like this type of guy, so if you don't look like him, forget it because you're not my type", or is she saying "I'm available, despite having a BF"? This one girl with a BF was talking about guys she thinks are hot, and I responded with "you already have a BF, no cheating", just to see what she says, and she said "but it's 'X"".

I don't think it means any of that stuff. In my experience, though, when a girl talks about celebs ALL the time, it's a big sign of immaturity. It's all right to admire a celeb, but many girls actually live in their fantasy world.

I'm talking about a girl that only has 5 CDs and all of them are by Eminem or have a song where he's featured. On our first date, she cut off a conversation because he was on the tv behind me, and started to mimic his actions and mouth the words to the song he was singing. Or the other girl who had a Vin Diesel fascination so she went to all of his movies and bought the dvd to the movies on the first day it came out, and had his picture on her walls and computer screen. Their dream world and the way they look at celebs translated to their real world look on relationships too.

Of course, this may not apply to your girl at all, but too much celeb talk has become a warning sign for me. As far as your original question, I don't think it means she's trying to tell you anything. Girls just feel comfortable raving about celebrities, even in front of guys.