girls who live by themselves, always raging slvts?

[Htienvu]

no the answers and advice are good, the problem is the advice given to me is too late.. i.e. i've asked for something to write/text

i wait a few hours, no reply. when eventually the replies come in i've already sent something else so that old advice is not relevant anymore.

then a few days later it might be a different scenario with the same HB, giving me advice on what's happened in the past isn't helpful that's why i ask different questions.

sometimes i get great detailed advice which makes sense and i learn from, but normally it's just 'get new plates' so i go from HB to HB making same mistakes without actually knowing how or why. there isn't enough detail in the advice i get, i need to understand the theory or someone to explain to me why something will work.

What you should do is spend some time reading tips and achieves, also other post in Discussion. Most of the time the questions you want to ask would've been asked by many other guys before you.

 

[Htienvu]

this is what i try to focus on, her own place is great cos u dont have to worry about the roommate being b1tchy or anything. but how can you really tell, if she says 'my friends say i should have a different guy round every weekend, but i say i dont, i respect myself too much.' this just makes me think she has in the past, and not so much now.

tbh i dont really mind if she's slept with a lot of guys, i seem to get more p1ssed off at if she's making me jump through hoops in order to sleep with her whereas some good looking guy she picks up at a club gets it no question.. or the fact that while she's single she's sleeping around just having fun and im not getting any cos she sees me as 'long term' the whole provider not lover BS.

i dont want to be a provider even if im getting it, i just want to be the lover. but it dont know how to communicate these things.

would you be bothered WHO she slept with? i know this is a contentious question, but i have issues with a woman i'm seeing sleeping with certain ethnic minorities, like i judge her for even considering them though i dont judge the guys for doing what they do.. it's just the girls they go for i notice where i come from are kinda trashy and low class, so it's difficult for me to separate her from them and the fact she's attracted to them just makes it look like i'd have problems in future as her head will turn, if i was her physical and ethnic type then i wouldnt care or worry, but you can just seem a potential headache in future if you get into an argument or something.

You think way too much mate, stop over-analyzing everything, you haven't even fk the girl yet for god sake. You shouldn't worry how many or who slept with in the past, she may as well been gang banged for all you know! You should only think about how you'll get into those pants and how quickly you can do it.

What you should focus on now is develop your game, apply the same game to every single girl you meet, potential long term or sluts does not change your frame. You know why she have sex with other guys so easily and not you? It's because you're not creating enough interest, you're coming in as a "nice guy" type, she's not sexually aroused by you.

Read and learn from DJ bible on how to be confident, sexual, how to talk to women, learn what attraction is and how to achieve it.

 

[BlackMack177]

A slvt is a slvt, not matter if she lives with 0 people or 100000. If she's gonna sleep around then nothing's gonna stop her.

Even if she has 1000 critical roommates, what's stopping her from fvcking dudes somewhere else?

over analyzing is a bad thing

 

[bukowski_merit]

For the record: I don't think Pete is a troll. He PM'd me about something. I gave him and answer. And he responded back that he didn't think he could do that but thanks.

My belief is that if he was a troll - he would have had no problem wasting my time.

this is what i try to focus on, her own place is great cos u dont have to worry about the roommate being b1tchy or anything. but how can you really tell, if she says 'my friends say i should have a different guy round every weekend, but i say i dont, i respect myself too much.' this just makes me think she has in the past, and not so much now.

Are you really on this again? This is about a month ago; you still haven't gotten an answer you want? There's no magic answer really.

You have a pretty thick Maddona/***** complex. But i don't expect this board to be able to fix it; most respected posters on this board also have that same issue and it seems to be respected logic around here.

But let me let you guys in on something: When a woman KNOWS she isn't being judged by you, and can be herself - everything is 100 times easier!

tbh i dont really mind if she's slept with a lot of guys, i seem to get more p1ssed off at if she's making me jump through hoops in order to sleep with her whereas some good looking guy she picks up at a club gets it no question.. or the fact that while she's single she's sleeping around just having fun and im not getting any cos she sees me as 'long term' the whole provider not lover BS.

This is because you're not being sexual. You're not being a bad boy (not an @sshole, but a guy that she classify's as "trouble") It's not just good looking guys; trust me. You can fvck her too if she feels like you can handle her. #1 way to make her feel like you can handle her: Is not being afraid to be sexual. Do you know who isn't afraid of being sexual? The guys she's fvcking after the date she has with you. He was probably sexual the 3rd or 4th sentence that came out of his mouth.

i dont want to be a provider even if im getting it, i just want to be the lover. but it dont know how to communicate these things.

See above....

would you be bothered WHO she slept with?

Yeah, i ask her what the biggest c@ck she's had in her is: If she says anything over 8 inches - she's instant nexted! (this is sarcasm).

i know this is a contentious question, but i have issues with a woman i'm seeing sleeping with certain ethnic minorities, like i judge her for even considering them though i dont judge the guys for doing what they do.. it's just the girls they go for i notice where i come from are kinda trashy and low class, so it's difficult for me to separate her from them and the fact she's attracted to them just makes it look like i'd have problems in future as her head will turn, if i was her physical and ethnic type then i wouldnt care or worry, but you can just seem a potential headache in future if you get into an argument or something.

So let me guess...
If she's been with a black of spanish guy: that disgusts you
If she's been with say... an asian guy: you would be cool with that

???

This is most likely less the reason that you say above, and more because if your broader issues with sex, aggresiveness, and perceived "slvtiness".

The truth is: IT doesn't matter if you're into those types of girl because they most likely wouldn't be into you. You're not aggresive enough. You're passive. You think too much. You censor yourself.

How much porn do you watch?

 

[pete101]

For the record: I don't think Pete is a troll. He PM'd me about something. I gave him and answer. And he responded back that he didn't think he could do that but thanks.

My belief is that if he was a troll - he would have had no problem wasting my time.




Are you really on this again? This is about a month ago; you still haven't gotten an answer you want? There's no magic answer really.

You have a pretty thick Maddona/***** complex. But i don't expect this board to be able to fix it; most respected posters on this board also have that same issue and it seems to be respected logic around here.

But let me let you guys in on something: When a woman KNOWS she isn't being judged by you, and can be herself - everything is 100 times easier!





This is because you're not being sexual. You're not being a bad boy (not an @sshole, but a guy that she classify's as "trouble") It's not just good looking guys; trust me. You can fvck her too if she feels like you can handle her. #1 way to make her feel like you can handle her: Is not being afraid to be sexual. Do you know who isn't afraid of being sexual? The guys she's fvcking after the date she has with you. He was probably sexual the 3rd or 4th sentence that came out of his mouth.




See above....







Yeah, i ask her what the biggest c@ck she's had in her is: If she says anything over 8 inches - she's instant nexted! (this is sarcasm).





So let me guess...
If she's been with a black of spanish guy: that disgusts you
If she's been with say... an asian guy: you would be cool with that

???

This is most likely less the reason that you say above, and more because if your broader issues with sex, aggresiveness, and perceived "slvtiness".

The truth is: IT doesn't matter if you're into those types of girl because they most likely wouldn't be into you. You're not aggresive enough. You're passive. You think too much. You censor yourself.

How much porn do you watch?

actually i'd have more issues if she was with an asian guy, spanish guys i dont care for, black maybe to an extent

but it's weird, i dont care if she's been highly sexual and had lots of sex.. it means im going to have a lot of fun, it's just as they say on here if she's slvtty she has a higher chance of cheating on you?

i think that's the issue. also i just am a bit disgusted by her if she's been with 2 dudes although logically i can understand why it would be more pleasurable for a woman.

i have been more sexual lately, like today for instance with the 40 year old i was highly sexual from the offset, she said to me i was too young and i said 'so i guess you cant keep up with me then' then she goes on to talk about her past dates with pof guys and wanted to show me their texts i was thinking wtf.. i should have asserted my dominance and said it's rude to talk about other guys on a date.. she only went into this when she found out i was 10 years younger than her.. she's stupid she shoulda read my profile.

anyway, i was more sexual as you said, i think this is the smart way to go.. but.. if she asks me 'what do you want?' what should i answer with? i just said i like to go with the flow.. and then she said she mistrusts me.. i was kino'ing her across the table way too much.. but at least i've established my sexual frame.

i'll keep this up in future. it feels good not having to hold back anymore.