Girls who don't want boyfriends

[zekko]

Lately I've heard a number of girls talking about how they don't want boyfriends. Now in a few cases, the reason was fairly obvious because they were openly gay or bisexual. But I wonder about the rest of them. I even know a few women from my youth who seem to be lifelong confirmed bachelorettes.

Most people on SoSuave believe that women want relationships while men want sex. So why are these women not wanting boyfriends? Did they have bad experiences? Are they wanting to ride a different c0ck every night? Are they broken? Would you consider this a red flag?

I know that some girls say this to men when they are not interested, but when they meet a guy they want, then they're suddenly all about it. But these were girls who were talking amongst themselves. What's their deal?

 

[Suspens]

• Still living at the c0ck carousel stage.
• History of mental abuse by nice guy dogs. Most nice dogs beg for relationships and they try to get it by playing the 'sneaky lover role' and once they secure a relationship with their 'lady of dreams' they unleash their true demonic beast upon the poor chick; cheating on her, manipulative behavior, etc.
• Weirdos

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

Some are gay/bi and some are gay/bi just want to screw with a lot of guys getting freebies without any commitment.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Women can still get all the free **** they get in a relationship while still just being single. A relationship is just more secure and consistent to them. Like Suspens said, they would just rather ride the c0ck carousel.

 

[Obsidian]

Low sex drive / Mental disorder / What Dhoulmagus said

And I've been saying this all along. It seems like the vast majority of women that I come across don't want to get married.

 

[Bingo-Player]

That bull about a woman wanting a relationship and a man wanting sex is absolute tosh

50 years ago yeah sure maybey but we are in the age of the beta, the majority of men would happily jump into a relationship for sex instead of tirelessly having to work for different chicks heck my friend has just done exactly that

On the flip side you now have women who get into relationships for the security and then realise they still have virtually as much freedom as a single woman does so she goes in search of fresh c0ck,

a woman in one of my social circles has had a boyfriend for the last 4 years and i hear she sleeps with other men on a weekly basis in some cases even has fully commited side relationships with them !!!

unfortunately What your going to see more and more of is casual relationships ......men and women dating and sleeping with multiple partners at once

This is already becoming more and more accepted around the world and personally i cant see much changing

Marriage is already a dying trend in most western countries

 

[Mike32ct]

She may still have a FWB for secret side action though.

She avoids boyfriends and has a FWB because she would rather F a hot guy (that won't commit) than a slightly above average looking guy that will commit.

Plus she can stay publicly "single," and hooking up with other random guys isn't cheating.

Finally, even some women know that relationships are a lot of effort and drama.

Or she's just incredibly picky (and/or lazy as plenty of women use porn and toys).

 

[badboyjmm]

I think that girls not wanting relationship is a combination of being in the **** carousel and not having a proper option proposed to them.

Sure girls usually have a lot more options but because dating is too much to their advantage, they allowed themselves to be extremely picky and sometimes ended up not being a relationship since (like it's been mention before) will settle to hookup with somebody they wish was their boyfriend but doesn't commit.

A girl told me that she didn't want a boyfriend (mentioning that she has a stable of guys to hookup with) then 10 minutes later said that there's one particular guy that she to be with... Crazy...

 

[El Payaso]

She just hasn't met the man that she wants to lock down yet. She already gets all the benefits and privileges of a relationship for free from her beta orbiters and c0ck carousel.

 

[KingBeef]

That bull about a woman wanting a relationship and a man wanting sex is absolute tosh

50 years ago yeah sure maybey but we are in the age of the beta, the majority of men would happily jump into a relationship for sex instead of tirelessly having to work for different chicks heck my friend has just done exactly that

On the flip side you now have women who get into relationships for the security and then realise they still have virtually as much freedom as a single woman does so she goes in search of fresh c0ck,

a woman in one of my social circles has had a boyfriend for the last 4 years and i hear she sleeps with other men on a weekly basis in some cases even has fully commited side relationships with them !!!

unfortunately What your going to see more and more of is casual relationships ......men and women dating and sleeping with multiple partners at once

This is already becoming more and more accepted around the world and personally i cant see much changing

Marriage is already a dying trend in most western countries

^^ THIS...

I mean really think about it as far as woman are concerned....

WHAT CONSEQUENCES WILL SHE FACE IF SHE GETS CAUGHT CHEATING IN A RELATIONSHIP OR EVEN MARRIAGE (NOT INCLUDING KIDS). With the exception of being exposed/shamed as a "slut" in front of her family/peers, I CAN'T FIND ANYTHING ELSE.

CAN ANYBODY?? :crazy:

 

[MAYALL]

Lately I've heard a number of girls talking about how they don't want boyfriends. Now in a few cases, the reason was fairly obvious because they were openly gay or bisexual. But I wonder about the rest of them. I even know a few women from my youth who seem to be lifelong confirmed bachelorettes.

Most people on SoSuave believe that women want relationships while men want sex. So why are these women not wanting boyfriends? Did they have bad experiences? Are they wanting to ride a different c0ck every night? Are they broken? Would you consider this a red flag?

I know that some girls say this to men when they are not interested, but when they meet a guy they want, then they're suddenly all about it. But these were girls who were talking amongst themselves. What's their deal?

I knew several girls in college who didn't want relationships because they were busy playing NCAA sports or focusing on their major. They all said they didn't have time for one. They had FB relationships, or didn't have sex until they met a guy they actually liked or had time for one. I wouldn't say it's a red flag, it's just how some women are and how things are today.

I agree with many of the others that they want the hookup c0ck culture and don't need the provisioning for a variety of reasons.

I am ok with that until baby wallet rape comes along.

Sure are a lot of people here scared to death of women fearing them. Might as well hide under a rock dude and fear the worst of what women "could" do to you. :crackup:

 

[zekko]

She avoids boyfriends and has a FWB because she would rather F a hot guy (that won't commit) than a slightly above average looking guy that will commit.

This is certainly one possible scenario. By the way, of the girls I know who have said this, I'm sure all of them are getting banged pretty regularly. Maybe not by a guy that they really want to stay with, but they're definitely getting it.

She already gets all the benefits and privileges of a relationship for free from her beta orbiters and c0ck carousel.

This is probably true also. Not only are they getting sex, guys are lining up to take them out, give them attention, give them gifts, etc. Settling down might end all that.

On the flip side you now have women who get into relationships for the security and then realise they still have virtually as much freedom as a single woman does so she goes in search of fresh c0ck

True, women these days are expected to keep and see male friends, so it isn't much of a jump to have sex with them. You know the guys want it.

I knew several girls in college who didn't want relationships because they were busy playing NCAA sports or focusing on their major. They all said they didn't have time for one

I remember seeing Serena Williams in an interview a few years ago, saying she had never had a boyfriend, because all she had time for was tennis. She's a pretty brawny looking chick, so you might suspect she might be lesbian. There have certainly been a lot of great lesbian tennis players. But I've never heard any suggestion before that she was.

 

[skinnyguy]

Women want casual sex more than men do. Lots of men want LTRs.


But remember the 80/20 rule. Most men are left out of their c0ck carousel.

 

[zekko]

no. this is another blue pill myth. testosterone is what drives sexual appetite. estrogen fosters all those squishy soft protective mother instincts.

Nonetheless, whenever they run a poll here on what guys really want, LTR always wins. Then there's Rollo, who states that men are really more romantic than women.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Nonetheless, whenever they run a poll here on what guys really want, LTR always wins. Then there's Rollo, who states that men are really more romantic than women.

Men want constant sex with a faithful woman. It has been like that since the start of civilization.

 

[Tictac]

Women that don't want a current attachment are no different than men that don't want a current attachment.

Either they have enough stuff going on already or the 'right' guy isn't in range.

 

[MAYALL]

I remember seeing Serena Williams in an interview a few years ago, saying she had never had a boyfriend, because all she had time for was tennis. She's a pretty brawny looking chick, so you might suspect she might be lesbian. There have certainly been a lot of great lesbian tennis players. But I've never heard any suggestion before that she was.

She very well could be a lesbian, or bi at the very least. The girls I knew, a few of them did have bisexual experiences but the others were straight. They practiced sports almost everyday, and when they weren't practicing, they had games and tournaments out of state. It's hard to have a real relationship when they are not around. That's why most of them put off relationships. Hell, I even know professional women now who are putting off marriage and relatonships to focus on their career.

"Scared to death of women fearing them"?

Wtf language are you speaking? What are you even referencing?

Son get an education, maybe it will help you speak coherently and make a tual logical points.

I am ok with that until baby wallet rape comes along.

Here's what you said dude. You're afraid fearing "baby wallet rape". It "could" happen, but you believe it will already happen. An awful weak mindset to have. Better fix it or you will always be a weak man.

 

[G_Govan]

Women don't need boyfriends because they already have resources from either their parents or themselves through working.

In addition to that, they're no longer shamed for sleeping around (at least not like they used to be) so they don't need boyfriends to keep up appearances.

Although plenty of them still want boyfriends out of a sense of stability. They just engage in branch swinging.