Girls that you haven't seen in a while

[Captain Obvious]

I went on a date with this girl a couple of times a while back. Then she got a boyfriend, so, naturally, I moved on. However, now I heard that she's single again, and I'd like to set up a date with her if she is. How do I handle this?

 

[Chosen1]

Well, I'm not the greatest when it comes to relationships I would just call her she probably remembers you if she doesn't i would move on if she does tell her you had something planned and would love for her to join you and always keep cool my friend

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Well, if she sees you as a friend, then I dont know. She selected a boyfriend over you while you were dating her, that means she saw you as a friend and you were friendzoned. Sounds like oneitis on her, try to meet more women.

 

[Captain Obvious]

Well, if she sees you as a friend, then I dont know. She selected a boyfriend over you while you were dating her, that means she saw you as a friend and you were friendzoned. Sounds like oneitis on her, try to meet more women.

eh, not really. it was more like I just stopped calling her. she had a boyfriend even WHILE we went out, but I didn't know about it. we always cuddled and kissed a little bit, and she always seemed like she was holding back something that she REALLY wanted to do, you know. by that I mean sexually. I found out why, later, cause she didn't want to cheat. that's why I quit calling her.

so... I dunno how I handle this now, since I kinda cut it off.

 

[Hitman10000]

Ignore, Move on.

 

[Rocker]

eh, not really. it was more like I just stopped calling her. she had a boyfriend even WHILE we went out, but I didn't know about it. we always cuddled and kissed a little bit, and she always seemed like she was holding back something that she REALLY wanted to do, you know. by that I mean sexually. I found out why, later, cause she didn't want to cheat. that's why I quit calling her.

so... I dunno how I handle this now, since I kinda cut it off.

Yeah, because seeing other guys and cuddling and kissing doesn't count as cheating does it?

 

[flexion_]

Ya I agree with others - don't think you'll get too far. Sounds like she didn't like you.