Girls that always want to talk; how to deal?

[itishe]

I'm basically going out with my ex girlfriend without the title. I'll admit I'm not the most honest guy (I hook up with chicks from time to time while my ex is away at college) and I like to keep her around for sex when she comes back.

Anywho, this broad calls me every day without skipping a beat. If I don't answer and then don't call back I get interrogated and made out to look like an *******. If I do answer and talk I usually get bored within 10 minutes because she just rambles on about her life and whenever I change the topic she always winds up talking about herself and her life. I'm sure she's unaware she's so self-centered but after a while I'll tell her I have to go, then she'll get upset I'm leaving.

How to deal with this bull****? I was thinking of just ignoring every 1 or 2 of her 4 calls and not calling back, if she asks just say I was really busy.

 

[WC2]

If you're not enjoying a relationship, then there's really no sense in it.

The pros of a relationship sometimes are outweighed by the cons (come on sometimes it is a lot better to be single), but they shouldn't be outweighed all the time.

The only reason I've had girlfriends is because I actually enjoy most of our time together. Sure, there are times when I go out to the club with my boys and I'm 2 words away from slamming some chick. But this is natural, and affects every guy in a relationship.

If you can't enjoy your girl when you're talking to her and you're just using her for constant ass, then there's really no good that will come of it. There's more adventerous and fun ass out there. Slam girls you don't know if you're looking for ass.

Tell her you're done with her and moving on.

 

[00Kevin]

I'm basically going out with my ex girlfriend without the title. I'll admit I'm not the most honest guy (I hook up with chicks from time to time while my ex is away at college) and I like to keep her around for sex when she comes back.

Anywho, this broad calls me every day without skipping a beat. If I don't answer and then don't call back I get interrogated and made out to look like an *******. If I do answer and talk I usually get bored within 10 minutes because she just rambles on about her life and whenever I change the topic she always winds up talking about herself and her life. I'm sure she's unaware she's so self-centered but after a while I'll tell her I have to go, then she'll get upset I'm leaving.

How to deal with this bull****? I was thinking of just ignoring every 1 or 2 of her 4 calls and not calling back, if she asks just say I was really busy.

the more bull**** like this that you get from girls the more they love you. Just continue to ignore. no big deal.

 

[penkitten]

you know, the odd thing is, we really dont realize that you dont want to talk to us.
i mean, we think you do want to talk to us
. we think we are interesting and if we are interested in you, we think you want to talk to us.
sometimes we say things like "you should call me sometime."
then you call us.
so.... why did you call us if you didnt want to talk to us?
and once you start calling us, then we call you.
and if you dont answer, we assume you arent home yet and we call back.
still, in our frame of thought, you like us and want to talk to us.

later on, we finally realize that some of you just wanted to get down our pants, and the other ones of you that really did want to talk to us, still find us interesting in 6 months.

lets call it experience, because it is what it is.

every chick goes crazy on at least one guy and blows his phone up.

live and learn huh?

 

[Kings_royalty]

If I don't answer and then don't call back I get interrogated and made out to look like an *******. If I do answer and talk I usually get bored within 10 minutes because she just rambles on about her life and whenever I change the topic she always winds up talking about herself and her life. I'm sure she's unaware she's so self-centered but after a while I'll tell her I have to go, then she'll get upset I'm leaving.

Why do you let her interrogate you? It's none of her business what you do...right? You feel like an ******* because she gets under your skin (your fault). She is the only thing that matters in her world, why would you want to be around someone like that?

It is HER problem if she gets upset when you are leaving, not yours. If she can’t deal with it, tell her not to call you anymore.

I would get rid of her quickly. Anyone this self centered will just suck the life right out of you bro. Stop answering her calls, if she happens to run into you, tell her you are busy, she will get the hint. You don’t need that type of headache in your life.

 

[banGbro]

I met a hot chick last week, number 9 easily. She was talking about herself the whole fvcking time, and negging fat people. What a b1tch! I bet she used to be fat when younger.

There is two things you could do, pick either one. A) Break up. B) Change her behaviour..


B is easy to start, dont answer, dont call back. When interrogated be fvcking ****y and make fun of her being so much into you that she call you every day. Just as a slight hint, hint to her that she scaring you off, making you look at other girls and not pick up the phone.

It sounds like you know her somewhat, so you could think of some responses and execute them perfectly, words, body language, everything to perfection. You are basically rasing her IL, which is always fun.

 

[itishe]

I got this girl so far under my finger that I almost feel bad when I don't pick up because I'll know she rans to her friends for about an hour.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

what girl doesn't always want to talk?

 

[Kev07]

Maybe you should call her all the time and see how she likes it

 

[Thomas94305]

You'll have to decide for yourself what you want to put up with and where to draw the line. For me, if a gal talks about herself, and keeps changing the subject back to her stuff when I bring something up.. I'd deal with that. I'd say.. "Hey, you know when I bring my stuff up, you don't spend much time on it.. aren't you interested?".. Or perhaps a C&F version.. "You keep dropping my topics, Great.. I get to drop your stuff too, I'll get right on it!".. Or whatever you want. Then, let her get all fussy, and tell her "now you know how I feel."

As for calling every day, I'd figure out what I want, and communicate that. For starters, you can communicate by actions, just don't call her back the same day. Or, you can tell her, or whatever.

Recommend you don't give ultimatums.. "you change this or I'm out" That's like cornering the other person, and she might bail to save face.

 

[Kev07]

real story-

this girl used to ask me advice about what to do with her bf, i gave her some really good advice, but she does not take it

girl keeps bvtching, and one day i told her "bvtch i told you what to do, either do it or dont, i don't care about your guy"

 

[The Sperminator]

I honestly don't mind talking if the girl has something to say thats interesting. Majority of the time when I talk to girls all they do is ***** about their life to me. I really don't want to talk on the phone for an hour about how you don't get along with your mom or how you hate your job and etc. Actually I don't even consider it talking it's more like listening. Then when you have something to say about yourself she either ignores what you said or quickly acknowleges it then goes back to herself. Most woman are selfish like that. Not all but most. I have had girls that I loved talking to because they were interesting and fun but majority of woman just like to ***** about their problems to you or the whole conversation focuses on her. My advice is just to lose her. Shes never going to change thats how she is programmed. Getting laid every once in a while isn't worth it in my opinion.