escaleraroyal
Master Don Juan
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Whats wrong with the girls who doesn't even let me finish saying my opener and walks away?
You really think is a numbers game and not skills game?You're not their physical type. Just move on to the next one.
You can't force attraction in a girl
Game is a numbers game
It's always a numbers game. Even the pro PUA's' get rejected lots.You really think is a numbers game and not skills game?
It's always a numbers game. Even the pro PUA's' get rejected lots.
The 'skill' element of it will simply increase the odds of you banging the girls who are already into you.
You can't force attraction in a girl no matter how many game techniques you apply (disqualify her, neg her, tease her, dhv story about your model ex girlfriend etc).
If you open a girl from cold approach who isn't remotely physically attracted to you, nothing you say will trick her into wanting to bang you. No amount of confidence etc will cut any ice. She might think you're fun and cool etc, but she won't want to bang you.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
How handsome is he? lolLet's say we have two guys at the same age, and have the same physical appearence.
guy1, have average skills and hits on 80 girls
guy2, have very advanced skills and hits on 30 girls
Who would bang more girls in the end?
From what you are saying, it sounds like guy1
How handsome is he? lol
If he's really handsome, guy 1 bangs like 70 girls, and guy 2 bangs like 28 girls
Let's say guy is a 7How handsome is he? lol
If he's really handsome, guy 1 bangs like 70 girls, and guy 2 bangs like 28 girls
Are you saying girls were more social 12 years ago? That's before facebook and other social media.Happens sometimes. I think it's usually a mixture of her not being into your looks plus her just not being a very sociable person. Lots of girls apparently have quite bad social anxiety nowadays as they just live on their phone reading their DM's from Instagram male models etc lol. So can get weirded out when a guy who they're not instantly attracted too starts talking to them. Depends on location maybe, too. I get WAY more insta rejections in the UK than in the US
7 out of 10. Average 'skills' - hits on 70 girls - bangs 32Let's say guy is a 7
First of all, props to you for going out and actually approaching women. I see too many guys here trying to use online dating.Let's say we have two guys at the same age, and have the same physical appearence (Both guys are a 7).
guy1, have average skills and hits on 80 girls
guy2, have very advanced skills and hits on 30 girls
Who would bang more girls in the end?
From what you are saying, it sounds like guy1
i'd say so.Are you saying girls were more social 12 years ago? That's before facebook and other social media.
It's both.You really think is a numbers game and not skills game?
Game is a numbers game
how well you dress? sorry if you really are the average 64 Y.O. grampa kind, you are looking hideous for the girl not even stop and see what grampa wants, also don't matter how good you look if you go after too young woman they will be freaked out don't matter how well you are, also care to share how you start?Whats wrong with the girls who doesn't even let me finish saying my opener and walks away?
I agree that there is a skill element, but it only comes into play AFTER she has picked you/is attracted to you/considers you good looking.There is an aspect to the "numbers game" that isn't wrong at all, but it is seriously over-hyped in my opinion.
I would say it is definitely a numbers game for men overcoming issues, hurdles, shortcomings and/or generally trying to improve their ways with women in general. But in most cases, it remains a numbers game for these guys because they are really just shooting blindly in an attempt to figure things out. It's like using buck shot just to ensure you kill at least one of the many doves hiding in the bushes.
I'm all on board with the idea that no man can eradicate rejection. It is definitely part of the game regardless of "skill level".
Where I part ways with the numbers game idea is when it is implied that all men of all skill levels have to approach a large number of women in order to succeed with a few of them.
This simply does not have to be true at all.
Once a man truly has his "game" in check, he not only develops a natural instinct, a heightened sensitivity to indicators of interest, but he can also attract enough women with his presence to be able to forge a high percentage of success with his selectivity without suffering a drop in his "abundance". In other words, he can game a large majority of women he approaches because he never truly cold approaches, even if the situation might fit the classical definition of a cold approach. He already knows he has the green light before a word is even spoken or a move is made.
A man who works on this level can still play the numbers game, but at this point, he is doing it purely for fun. It is an attempt to see what crazy thing he can get away with, like an intentional self-sabotage. It is more of an unnecessary challenge to himself born entirely out of curiosity and a desire to push the envelope to see what he can get away with, rather than a tactic that must be employed in order to be successful. It is quite voluntary.