Girls getting angry

[phil2015]

Just a quick one,

I recently began learning and researching some of the things on here and putting them into practice...

One thing I've noticed, that whilst certain things/tips work very well, ie not calling/texting a lot increases her interest level, and so on there appears to be certain draw backs....

I find that they seem to get more angry and frustrated, when they realise they cannot control you or manipulate you, especially if shes very attractive.

Has anyone else any experience of this?
Or is it something I'm perhaps approaching from the wrong perspective?

Phil

 

[Krueg]

Depends, maybe she is a b!tch, psycho, control freak, needy or whatever.. Screen her like any other woman.

 

[sylvester the cat]

I had been seeing a woman for a few weeks, then one day I didnt call her, or respond to her calls, due to my hectic day - and the first thing she said when she called that night was "were you playing hard to get today?"

At a certain point, this "playing aloof" to maintain/increase her interest has to go out the window. She apparently saw right through it.

You said you didn't call her due to your hectic day, not because you were playing hard to get So what did she see through exactly?

If she believed that you were playing hard to get I doubt she would have said so much less play into your hands and call you.

 

[sylvester the cat]

Just the fact that she thought I was playing a game. Since I'm not the best at this, a little concerned that if I keep up this pattern, women will start to think I'm not interested as much.

Yes. That is the whole point. For them to think you are not that interested. That's what keeps them interested.

She didn't think you were playing games. She thought you were not interested.rare is the woman who actually says what is on her mind.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

It's also to test their temperament. In the beginning it can be hard to tell if a woman has a high or low patience level; this is one of the reasons why it's good to take a woman on a date then wait 4 days to call her. In the grand scheme of things 4 days isn't a big deal, so if you call her up after that time to ask her out and she's like "cool, let's go" without bringing up the fact that you waited to call her, it means she has a good patience level and should be easy to deal with. But, if you call her 4 days later and she's all like "about time you called, what took you so long?? You better not be playing games with me!" One, she just revealed she has little to no patience; and two, she just showed you she has an attitude problem when things don't go her way. Therefore, she wouldn't be a candidate to date - but again, you have to do things like this to see what their response will be to get a better gauge of how they REALLY are (vs. the representative of themselves they have showing up on those first few dates).

 

[old_skoolr]

It's also to test their temperament. In the beginning it can be hard to tell if a woman has a high or low patience level; this is one of the reasons why it's good to take a woman on a date then wait 4 days to call her. In the grand scheme of things 4 days isn't a big deal, so if you call her up after that time to ask her out and she's like "cool, let's go" without bringing up the fact that you waited to call her, it means she has a good patience level and should be easy to deal with. But, if you call her 4 days later and she's all like "about time you called, what took you so long?? You better not be playing games with me!" One, she just revealed she has little to no patience; and two, she just showed you she has an attitude problem when things don't go her way. Therefore, she wouldn't be a candidate to date - but again, you have to do things like this to see what their response will be to get a better gauge of how they REALLY are (vs. the representative of themselves they have showing up on those first few dates).

This is why I come to this sites still.....for gold advice like this. haha

 

[G_Govan]

Playing aloof is supposed to be temporary until it becomes genuine.

There will be times where you want to be left alone or you truly are busy with something that's more important than idle chat. Don't feel like you have to always check in and respond right away like a child with his parents.

If they confront you about it you act as though you have no idea what they're talking about, like it's a simple, natural behavior. You were simply busy at the time.

It's a subtle thing women do to feel you out and control you. Make you predictable. If it's truly important/urgent that's another matter.