Girls be Running Like it's Godzilla!!

[Jax]

Why am I scary?
So I've read a few Don Juan books like the The Book of Pook a while back and started improving on myself as a person not to mention my game. Before then countless people have told me I was attractive (on going), but I don't believe in just looks so I kept working on my game.

During my improvement I've:
(1) Pack on some muscle, get oggled all the time now by girls
(2) Better body language
(3) Develop strong inner values as a man should have

(a) Now that I've made good progress in those improvements, I've noticed that girls are now afraid to talk to me even in classroom situations.
-can't look me in the eye
-run when I try to say hi (not literally)
-mention boyfriend a ton in a casual conversation about school

(b) If girls are not afraid, then they tend to be neurotic and they act crazy when they are around me. (not complaining, just stating)
-acting like a little girl
-very mean to me when I hardly know them
-play tons of jealousy and mind games (barely talk to them)
-put me down as much as possible, heckle me

(c) When I think they are interested and they pursue and ask for my number and suggest we go places. They:
-They seem afraid of dates, but do come to lunches or study dates
-Add me on fb(their idea) and then delete me weeks later, sometimes
even when I haven't talked to them in a while (I verified,)...I don't
usually add ppl
-Look at me like why am I asking them out or they literally ask me

Those are what usually happens to me. With that being said I feel that I'm scaring away or intimidating these girls now after all my improvements.

Girls still approach me all the time, when I make move (not instantly) they give me the weird eyes. It seems I have to stand there and let them do everything, that works...thought guys were suppose to lead.

Note: I developed a lot of haters (mainly guys...friend included) that either try to tool me in public or discourage my efforts or even trying to c*ckblock me.

So I trying to figure out what I can do to not make people run away? And I know there are always haters, but if I could reduce the number.

Note: I have been developing an outgoing personality during this time too. It's been taking off quite nicely, still need to improve for those that are intimidated.

 

[Single4Life]

Maybe they think you are a player or something

not sure

 

[d!ckmojo]

Ja, I've experienced similar in my life.

In my case, when I started becoming attractive to women, the guys who had been my good friends for years really reacted negatively to it.

They started doing everything they could to bad mouth me behind my back to the girls in our social circle, portraying me out to be a sleaze/creep/wierdo.

They really felt threatened by me, because before that I was always a really friendly easy going stoner whom the girls weren't into. But once I changed and became c0cky and funny towards women, and had sexual confidence, my friends really turned on me.

That shredded my social cred, man, and ruined my social status for good. Ever heard of the tall poppy syndrome? That's what they did to me. Every party I'd go to, the chicks I'd meet there would be super into me, but then everyone else would start bad-mouthing me to them and telling them I'm a sleaze and a creep etc.

You need social value when gaming women, its even more important than looks and confidence. Girls are such social creatures, they talk to each other incessantly, and they always have a read on where you sit on the social ladder.

If you're attractive, and have loyal friends and are respected within your social circle, girls don't get intimidated, they get turned on.

But if you are shunned by others, no matter how attractive and confident and masculine you are, girls will be intimidated and turned off by you.

They take their cue on how to react to you by observing how others react to you.

Even more important than being attractive and confident, in the context of attracting women, I have come to believe, is being socially accepted by your group, and having high social status.