IShotTheSheriff
Don Juan
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Dear DJs.
I wanna sahre a situation with you I found myself in a few days ago.
I was sitting on the couch with a bisexual girlfriend of mine in her apartment when anothe Girld (lets call her girls 2) comes in. We start talking - both grils are bisexuel and I start thinking about how to set up a threesome tonight.
So we start to talk about sex, I touch one girl, then the other one and talked about a third girl (green hairs- call her Girl 3) which we all know. Suddenly Girl 2 gets sad and finally tells us she is in love with girl 2 for over 1 year. I asked her if she ever did something about it. She told me "Yes, I told her once, that I like her, but she never really did anything."
And it continoues. We told her she could set up a DVD evening with girl 3 and get closer and seduce her - just like a guy would do (yes guys watch a DVD on your bed is the international code for getting it on). She said "No -thats impossible, she told me she would never have sex without being in a relationship, and also since her boyfriend left her one year ago girl 3 totally lost her interest in sex and feels asexual and I could never try and seduce her because I respect her feelings to much. I would feel so dirty if I would start making out with her that night because I know she does not want it."
I just thaught about all those girls for a moment who told me "Just so you know, I didn´t plan any of this and I dont usually do this" while I was taking her clothes of or while she was .. doing something nasty to me
So I told her that girl 3 is only a woman too and that I am shure that she wants sex as much as every other woman. But she got moody and told me " Just because you know a few woman who want sex, this does not apply to all of us - there are lots of woman who dont want sex" At this point I had to laugh so hard, I spilled some of my tea on the floor. I cleand it up, took Girl 1 and we left girl 2 alone which now was fairly angry for me laughing about her.
So what can we get out of all this?
I read a lot about "Woman are in a better position than men, when it comes to dating" or "Why dont woman approach men", "Why dont woman just take a guy and rip his clothes of if they find him attractive" , "Why are woman so passive".
I am shure this situation shows why. When it comes to dating - woman are in no better position than you and me. They are insecure, nervous and completely lost. If they find themselves in a position where they have to act - like the poor girl here - they act like the ideal AFC. They are afraid to act, afraid to show their sexuality, they get overwhealmed by limiting beliefes and they get dissuated by every small barrier.
Why is a woman passive and does not show you she is interrested even if she finds you attractive? She does not know that you want sex with her. She might guess it, but she is totally insecure about her own sexuality. When it comes to sexuality woman are like mirrors. If she talks to all the other girls or the media tell her that it is totally inappropriate to have casual sex with a guy, she will not do it. Of cause she has those needs, but she feels filthy about them because she thinks every other girl is so brave and honest and if she would approach a guy, she is a slut. Nowerday where many guys are conditioned not to show their sexuality a girl might even realy think that you dont want to have sex with her and gets completely lost about her sexual needs. As we have seen above - a girl does not know, and would never make a ligic step like "Hmm I am a girl and I am horny. The other girls just have to be horny too. or " He is a guy, i am a woman - nature designed us to have sex with each other so I am shure he wants to have sex with me." So thats why its up to YOU to compfort her. And more important to show a woman that you are proud of your own sexuality so she can see that there is nothing wrong with being sexual and that you would never judge her as a slut.
This is also the reason why guys who have not come to terms with their own sexuality dont get girls or get stuck in LJBF Land. You just feed the girls insecurity. Again think of them as a sexual mirror.
Thank you for your time.
Sheriff
I wanna sahre a situation with you I found myself in a few days ago.
I was sitting on the couch with a bisexual girlfriend of mine in her apartment when anothe Girld (lets call her girls 2) comes in. We start talking - both grils are bisexuel and I start thinking about how to set up a threesome tonight.
So we start to talk about sex, I touch one girl, then the other one and talked about a third girl (green hairs- call her Girl 3) which we all know. Suddenly Girl 2 gets sad and finally tells us she is in love with girl 2 for over 1 year. I asked her if she ever did something about it. She told me "Yes, I told her once, that I like her, but she never really did anything."
And it continoues. We told her she could set up a DVD evening with girl 3 and get closer and seduce her - just like a guy would do (yes guys watch a DVD on your bed is the international code for getting it on). She said "No -thats impossible, she told me she would never have sex without being in a relationship, and also since her boyfriend left her one year ago girl 3 totally lost her interest in sex and feels asexual and I could never try and seduce her because I respect her feelings to much. I would feel so dirty if I would start making out with her that night because I know she does not want it."
I just thaught about all those girls for a moment who told me "Just so you know, I didn´t plan any of this and I dont usually do this" while I was taking her clothes of or while she was .. doing something nasty to me
So I told her that girl 3 is only a woman too and that I am shure that she wants sex as much as every other woman. But she got moody and told me " Just because you know a few woman who want sex, this does not apply to all of us - there are lots of woman who dont want sex" At this point I had to laugh so hard, I spilled some of my tea on the floor. I cleand it up, took Girl 1 and we left girl 2 alone which now was fairly angry for me laughing about her.So what can we get out of all this?
I read a lot about "Woman are in a better position than men, when it comes to dating" or "Why dont woman approach men", "Why dont woman just take a guy and rip his clothes of if they find him attractive" , "Why are woman so passive".
I am shure this situation shows why. When it comes to dating - woman are in no better position than you and me. They are insecure, nervous and completely lost. If they find themselves in a position where they have to act - like the poor girl here - they act like the ideal AFC. They are afraid to act, afraid to show their sexuality, they get overwhealmed by limiting beliefes and they get dissuated by every small barrier.
Why is a woman passive and does not show you she is interrested even if she finds you attractive? She does not know that you want sex with her. She might guess it, but she is totally insecure about her own sexuality. When it comes to sexuality woman are like mirrors. If she talks to all the other girls or the media tell her that it is totally inappropriate to have casual sex with a guy, she will not do it. Of cause she has those needs, but she feels filthy about them because she thinks every other girl is so brave and honest and if she would approach a guy, she is a slut. Nowerday where many guys are conditioned not to show their sexuality a girl might even realy think that you dont want to have sex with her and gets completely lost about her sexual needs. As we have seen above - a girl does not know, and would never make a ligic step like "Hmm I am a girl and I am horny. The other girls just have to be horny too. or " He is a guy, i am a woman - nature designed us to have sex with each other so I am shure he wants to have sex with me." So thats why its up to YOU to compfort her. And more important to show a woman that you are proud of your own sexuality so she can see that there is nothing wrong with being sexual and that you would never judge her as a slut.
This is also the reason why guys who have not come to terms with their own sexuality dont get girls or get stuck in LJBF Land. You just feed the girls insecurity. Again think of them as a sexual mirror.
Thank you for your time.
Sheriff
