How often do u guys think a girl should give a guy head when dating. And should u ever have to to ask for it? I always had to ask with my ex. After a while i got tired of askin, i felt she should just do it if she was a good gf. I'm not sayin every time, but at least once every few weeks would be nice. My girl used to do it when i asked, then she would never want to cuz she hated the taste. Her excuse was - why not jus have sex.