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Girls and Physical Disabilities

MoreThanSmooth

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Has anyone got any experience with dating a girl with a physical disability?

Had a chat recently with a girl who is really athletic and smoking hot, but she has a condition that requires her to use a wheelchair on a regular basis.

She's looking for a short term, fun relationship and it just made me curious how you guys see that sort of thing. She's quite a cutie and I feel that while it's something that's probably a real strain/value limitation in an LTR, in a short-term relationship a girl like this could still offer quite a bit.

Thoughts?
 

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Once a girl like that asked if she should pursue me (she was texting me often on fb) i straight said no, even tho she was hot. Depends on your emotional stability. Personally I couldnt be with someone disabled, it just ruins my mood/weakens my mind.

If you feel ok with it then why not?

PS i was 18 back then so maybe thats why
 

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Has anyone got any experience with dating a girl with a physical disability?

Had a chat recently with a girl who is really athletic and smoking hot, but she has a condition that requires her to use a wheelchair on a regular basis.

She's looking for a short term, fun relationship and it just made me curious how you guys see that sort of thing. She's quite a cutie and I feel that while it's something that's probably a real strain/value limitation in an LTR, in a short-term relationship a girl like this could still offer quite a bit.

Thoughts?
Most likely she's really looking for a long term relationship.

Prolly baiting with the short term fun relationship tag line.

Good luck.
 

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If she's able to use the bathroom on her own, then you won't have much issues. The ones who are 100 percent wheelchair dependent will either use a catheter or wear depends. Stay away from that because you won't know what you'll find her pvssy soaking in.
 

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i thinnk it hot bangin a chick you know rarely gets any.... I hit a girl w/2 broken legs in casts once..
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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i thinnk it hot bangin a chick you know rarely gets any.... I hit a girl w/2 broken legs in casts once..
LOL.

I've never thought about it and now you've given me an idea :up:
 

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i thinnk it hot bangin a chick you know rarely gets any.... I hit a girl w/2 broken legs in casts once..
Well I rarely get any P but im not disabled. Should I tell it to the person im dating now so she can feel its hot to bang me?
 

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For whatever reason, I’m kinda wondering if you’ve seen her in person or not. I feel like a woman might go ahead and say something like that just to see if you would actually want to get with her, and then surprise you that she actually isn’t and that she was only testing you all along. That’s if she was telling you this online and you haven’t seen her in person yet.

For me personally, since she just wants something short term, and she’s super hot, I would go for it. Long term though I am not sure I can, unless she literally has the greatest personality on the face of the earth. And in women, especially today with all this ‘feel-good’ culture ****, they tend not to. Short term, yes. Long term, probably not.
 

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So the wheelchair girl wasn't interested in dating in the end...just started talking to another pretty lady. She's very friendly (uncharacteristically smart and friendly compared to many of the girls I've talked to recently). She's done all this crazy stuff - rock climbing, speech tours, radio programmes...I was rather impressed with it all.

She's legally blind.

I think she must have some minimal sight to even be reading my messages and looking at my photos online, but still. She says she likes movies too.

Wow. What a stunner, wasn't expecting that...two significant disabilities in a row...!

I think the poor girl lost her sight to a degenerative condition a few years ago. To give you some idea of what she gets up to now, she climbed a rock wall about 10 metres up in heels while blind (harness, but still...).

Not exactly sure how to feel. I'm actually a bit deaf in one ear myself due to random BS luck.

She's clearly a really strong, driven person and genuinely very nice to boot. Can't be bad to go on a date or two with her, can it? She's pretty cute and in good physical shape too.

I always seem to get into very complicated situations like this, though.
 

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Nothing wrong with dating either chick in my opinion. Go for it.
 
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Wheelchair? Legally blind? Damnit, man.

Why would you want to take on the added responsibility?

You're young! Save that kind of sh1t for when you're 70.
 

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My friend banged a deaf girl in Aiya Napa year ago, I found it hilarious.
 
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