Girlfriend's demanding

[DJinTraining06]

Haven't posted on here in almost a yr prob, guess i lost interest since i started goin out wit my gf. But anyway things r great between us, but every once in a while ill have to work late on the weekends, and she acts like a b*tch about it. i tell her over and over i cant do anything about it but she still gets like that. I ask her whats wrong and say "what do u want me to do, i didnt choose to have to work this weekend" and then she flips on me, and says "im just frustrated and dissapointed, im not allowed to feel that way?'

This is just riduculous to me cuz when ur siply dissapointed u keep it to urself. She actually takes it out on me and acts b*tchy cuz she cant see me all weekend. So then shes mad at me and says im being mean to her cuz i dont let her be dissapointed. So i cant win. Meanwhile i spend every weekend wit her, i think one weekend every couplke months wont kill her, i see her during the week at least once anyhow. I'm a lil worried cuz in about a 6 months, my job is making me work weekend nights every week. I warned her about this and she said she wont mind, and understands, but i dunno if she acts like this over one weekend, how she gonna act for a year, cuz thats how long it will prob last wit the no weekends

 

[KontrollerX]

Other than taking some time off from time to time there's not much more you can do.

Its your job man the way you earn a living.

If she can't be understanding about that then the relationship will just continue to suffer if not outright fail eventually.

Either by her cheating or the arguments increasing in frequency and intensity it doesn't look like this will end well and I feel for you since there really is nothing else you can do short of get a different job and for all I know you may of worked harder than ever in school to get this job so its not like you can just go get another one that pays just as well.

Well not unless you work at a supermarket or something like that lol.

 

[window]

1st don't dont react to her tantrums. Just explain once to her that if she continues with the bs she's out. If you don't shut it down now it's only going to get worse....

Spartens we are.

 

[joekerr31]

she treats you this way becuase you let her. because in your interaction with her im sure you give off a 'oh god im so scared of losing you that i'll let you kick my balls in and just keep my fingers crossed you don't get fed up with me and leave" attitude.

you should be considering cutting lose of this chic. a woman who doesn't support you in your career or in the process of making ends meat is useless in the long run.

and i'll tell you exactly what is goign through her head when she says these things.... ready....set.....go....

"ITS ALL ABOUT ME! WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA! ME ME ME ME ME! WHAAAAAAAA!"

congrats you've got a whiny b*tch for a girlfriend.

 

[guru1000]

Look at the name of your post "Girlfriend is demanding". Who holds the power? Ultimately where does that lead to? Women without power don't demand. Looks like you are setting yourself up for failure.

Now if the shoe was on the other foot, and she had the "Fear of Loss", not you, would she complain or demand anymore?

My advice to you, put the "Fear of Loss" into her immediately.