Girlfriends classmate on her facebook

[itishe]

Heyo,

I've had past girlfriends get a little too close with guys at schools (we are currently 1 hour apart), leading me to believe they cheated on me or me dumping them. It usually starts with the guy and girl opening conversation on Facebook or myspace, so when I see this random guy pop up on my girlfriends Facebook I tend to view it with scrutiny.

I don't mind if my gf talks to other guys, I just don't wanna be played and I wish to know when things are up to no good. The message talked about a class they have together and how he'll see her tomorrow in it. I figure for them to be each others friend they must of been talking in class and met up online. For all I know they might party together on weekend when we don't visit.

I'm not gonna get tight or controlling around the girl, but when do I know they are up to no good?

 

[facadegeniality]

is she an aquarius? aquarius are a friendly lot.

i know most guys here have the view that horoscopes are for girls. but i think there's some truth in it. like the base characters are there.

 

[chinwaggler]

If you accuse her without any solid proof you're going to look like a tit. Why don't you just date girls near you.

 

[itishe]

If you accuse her without any solid proof you're going to look like a tit. Why don't you just date girls near you.

I'm not accusing her of anything man, what I'm saying is almost like finding a lump on your balls. It may or may not be an issue but it's smart to keep an eye on it and seek advice.

I'm not accusing her of cheating or intent to cheat, I just wish to keep an eye out because I've had relationships do this. As in a guy randomly shows up on one of the two sites and they go from there.