girlfriend thinks/thought i liked another girl..help needed

shark

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She asked me if i liked this other girl who were both friendly with. I don't and i really do only like my girlfriend..i told her that i didnt like the girl and she was the one i liked but idk if she really believed me based on her somewhat sarcastic responce.

Do i get her to believe me and bring it up? Or do i leave it alone? OR..do i somehow use this towards my advantage in the relationship?
 

WesCottII

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Leave it. Bringing it up will only result in a pissy fight.
 

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show her you like her.

don't tell her.

she's being immature. don't buy into it.
 

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It's quite natural to fancy other girls when you are in a relationship. Whats important is that you don't act on it.

Explain and get her to accept this fact if it comes up, if not, leave it alone.

The phrase "bunny boiler" comes to mind with your girlfriend here - shes getting clingy and insecure. You have been warned...
 

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I would imply that I've been seeing this other girl in a more intimate way. I would say this in a playful way so she wouldn't know if I was serious or not. She would then get jealous and want you even more. I do this all the time to my gf. It works more me. Let me know if it works for you.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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