Hey, I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a month now. We met up here where I live, exclusively dated after a week (fast, I know) and then she had to go back home for 2 weeks, pack her crap up and move, before she comes back here, which will be in 2 days.
Everything was great until 4 days ago. I was going through some emotional crap with my alcoholic father; he shut my sister and nephew out of his life 4 days ago and 2 days ago he tried to commit suicide by ingesting pills. Obviously devestated, I call my girlfriend.. at her GOING AWAY PARTY (I completely forgot and was a stupid move) only to have her say she can't 'handle this' and she basically hung up. A little pissed off, I call her back twice (Mistake two).
Then an hour later she texts me saying 'it's too much for her to handle and that maybe once she's in town we'll see what happens.' Apparently I was overthinking too much and was always coming to the worst conclusion about everything, which I was. I pull off a TOTAL AFC and say to her that she should rethink this, she's the one for me, bla bla bla. Way too much texting and I smothered her, which put the power in her hands. My emotions were everywhere and I couldn't control them. Should of went RIGHT to my friends and family, not her. Another lesson learned!
So. She calls me the next day, I apologize to her saying I haven't been in the right frame of mind for the past 4 days and that it's all over now, which it was. We get off the phone, she immediatly texts me saying she's having 'doubts' about the relationship. Instead of just ignoring it, I tell her that we can work on it and we will get through it, just a bump in the road.
She calls me again, we talk for an hour, everything seems pretty good, like it's back to normal.
So she texts me this morning with this;
"What we are doing is crazy. It's done, at least until I get there, which is probably not 'til Friday or Saturday. Don't try and fight this, just let it happen. Talk to you later."
My good friend that knows her well texted me saying she was talking to her and said that we're not broken up but we're on "a break."
So for one, who the hell breaks up with someone over a text and breaks up over Facebook before you even have the courtesy of a phone call? Second, what the hell do I do? I haven't texted her back and won't. I think I'll just throw her aside, I'm way better than this. She has all the power in her hand and she thinks I'm gonna sit here, like a puppy, waiting for her?
Screw that. I'm better than this. I did some AFC moves, I know of this but it's all a lesson learned in the end.
Everything was great until 4 days ago. I was going through some emotional crap with my alcoholic father; he shut my sister and nephew out of his life 4 days ago and 2 days ago he tried to commit suicide by ingesting pills. Obviously devestated, I call my girlfriend.. at her GOING AWAY PARTY (I completely forgot and was a stupid move) only to have her say she can't 'handle this' and she basically hung up. A little pissed off, I call her back twice (Mistake two).
Then an hour later she texts me saying 'it's too much for her to handle and that maybe once she's in town we'll see what happens.' Apparently I was overthinking too much and was always coming to the worst conclusion about everything, which I was. I pull off a TOTAL AFC and say to her that she should rethink this, she's the one for me, bla bla bla. Way too much texting and I smothered her, which put the power in her hands. My emotions were everywhere and I couldn't control them. Should of went RIGHT to my friends and family, not her. Another lesson learned!
So. She calls me the next day, I apologize to her saying I haven't been in the right frame of mind for the past 4 days and that it's all over now, which it was. We get off the phone, she immediatly texts me saying she's having 'doubts' about the relationship. Instead of just ignoring it, I tell her that we can work on it and we will get through it, just a bump in the road.
She calls me again, we talk for an hour, everything seems pretty good, like it's back to normal.
So she texts me this morning with this;
"What we are doing is crazy. It's done, at least until I get there, which is probably not 'til Friday or Saturday. Don't try and fight this, just let it happen. Talk to you later."
My good friend that knows her well texted me saying she was talking to her and said that we're not broken up but we're on "a break."
So for one, who the hell breaks up with someone over a text and breaks up over Facebook before you even have the courtesy of a phone call? Second, what the hell do I do? I haven't texted her back and won't. I think I'll just throw her aside, I'm way better than this. She has all the power in her hand and she thinks I'm gonna sit here, like a puppy, waiting for her?
Screw that. I'm better than this. I did some AFC moves, I know of this but it's all a lesson learned in the end.
