Girlfriend, Masterbating ?

[Hunterchilla]

ok IM gonna have alot of trouble explaining this but here goes....

So when I masterbate, before, or the night before I see my girlfriend to some HARDCORE porn, when im making out with my girlfriend i dont really get hard, and when im grabbing her ass, I dont get hard.

But on the other hand if I didnt look at hardcore porn, for a couple days or a day before I see her, then when we kiss I get hard, or when i grab her ass and feel her up I get really hard.

Anyway what do you guys do? when you have a girlfriend are you also using porn sites, masterbating? or do you save the hornyness for your girlfriend.

I really like when im making out with my girlfriend and feeling her up, and I get hard, but if lets say I jerked off a couple hours before I met her, or the night before its gonna take more to get me hard.

the thing is when im in my room by my self, with the internet free to roam, I get really horny. I dont kno wether i should hold out for my GF or just use teh-porn.

Whats your guys thoughts on this? and experiences? thx.

 

[Bourne]

Its mastUrbating.

 

[MystLk]

your a 20year old man, if you like masturbating keep at it, i have girls I mess with and if i know im getting some i masturbate before so i last longer and the sex is usually better...thats like 10 more min of ****ing (if your man enough) plus as long as your able to get it up when your ready to be with your girl (sex, not just kissing and grabbing) then your alright......plus i dont know if i can stop masturbating and i still get girls so yeah do what you want basically your a grown man.

 

[brocollie]

lol @ bourne's reply

well m8, if i dont do it before the meeting, i aint able to have a decent sex, meaning i get too excited am finished too soon. so if u do it before, your harder to get horny, but remember girls are harder to get horny always so as mystlk said, u last longer during the act. thants it

 

[Bobbles]

You will never be able to stop masturbating unless your girlfriend is there all the time. However you just need to find the right limit of how long before you see her should you masturbate.

Too long and you will *** too quick, but too close to seeing her and you won't be horny enough. If you get it just right and you will get aroused easily enough but still last long enough.

For me It's actually about a day before I see her. Everyone is different, find your time zone.

 

[Shiftkey]

If porn is affecting your sex life, you should cut back on the porn. Or just give it up entirely.

Would you rather get laid or give yourself handjobs?

 

[BrotherAP]

I prefer not to masturbate if I know I'm going to have sex with my girlfriend for a few reasons.

For one, if I've over done it than I feel sexually exhausted before even trying to perform - when getting an erection is difficult, the sex itself becomes more of a chore than a recreational activity. I want to be pressing my boner against her as we kiss passionately, and I want to be so aroused that I almost can't help myself. That's the fun sex. As another plus, being turned on by a girl turns her on more - women often calibrate their arousal to yours. If you want to go at it eagerly and often, she'll delightfully match your fervor.

Don't worry about going too soon. Make sure to throw in a lot of foreplay ahead of time, caressing her, playing with her tits, kissing her body, going down on her, rubbing her ****oris - make her want it as bad as you do. Don't worry about premature ejaculation, you'll finish exactly when you're ready. If she's not keeping up that's her problem.

Alright, just kidding about goin too early - but really the best solution to premature ejaculation is to first of all get her off before getting yourself off through whatever - oral sex counts as time in bed - and, second of all, making sure you're up for round two, because you always last longer in round two. If you're having a hard time getting up the first time around, you wont be capable of an immediate round two.

Hell, if you're aroused enough you might be able to go for three or more. The more the merrier.

Don't let people fool you into thinking that you're gaining anything by jacking off before you deal with girls. You want to save that energy for her, otherwise you'll end up spanking it so much that you'll hate sex with your girlfriend because you'll feel like you're cheating on your hand.

 

[Bourne]

Originally posted by BrotherAP
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Don't let people fool you into thinking that you're gaining anything by jacking off before you deal with girls. You want to save that energy for her, otherwise you'll end up spanking it so much that you'll hate sex with your girlfriend because you'll feel like you're cheating on your hand.

I used to think that I jerk off and I would be more relaxed and not so anxious. BS.

You tend to become her friend or she sees you as gay. You need that testosterone and be physical and show sexual interest and tension.

STOP jerking off so much, kill the porn and get your porn feed from the girls you get together with.

 

[Paintballguy]

I think I must have real high test levels because I can rub one out a few times and still rail a girl for as long as I want and not finish until I want. I have no idea, I guess it varies from guy to guy.

 

[Reagan]

Would you rather get laid or give yourself handjobs?

Well, my hands name is Sally. She doesn't judge me. She doesn't get pissy when she has a bad day. She always knows the way I like it.

 

[Hunterchilla]

actually when im having sex i dont have a problem with holing back or anything. actually some times i have trouble getting off. Which is why i think its even better for me not to masterbate before i go out.

I think i have a low sex drive or something ;p

 

[BrotherAP]

Of course you have no problem holding back when you've jacked off, you've already spent that anticipation and essentially ruined it for yourself.

You shouldn't be holding back. Go ahead and erupt. Then take 5 and start the foreplay again, lather rinse repeat. She'll thank you for the repeated effort, trust me.

 

[comote]

If you are doing any sort of foreplay whatsoever then you should be having no problem whacking off 10 times a day and still having sex. When you start kissing your gf you should get hard, if that doesn't do it, eat her out until you want to have sex, if that still doesn't work have her suck your d!ck until it's hard, if that doesn't work maybe you should see a doctor.

I have never had such problems, I did have one girlfriend who refused to let me do it, she would tell me to wait so that she could take care of me, she was taking care of me 4-5 times a day. Ahh those were good times.

 

[Hunterchilla]

lucky ****

 

[mattd1700]

Ron Jermey says to not masturbate 2-3 days before a movie shoot. Anymore than that and you'll blow to soon.