Girlfriend kissed another guy...then apologized

[Blackhole105]

My gf was out with another guy the other night and said all they did was kiss and hold hands. She than apologized and promised to never do it again.

I learned from her sister later that my gf didn't get home until 4:30 in the morning. I told her this and she said that they sat in her driveway for 3 hours...

 

[tr0ublemaker]

dude, why are you even giving her the benefit of the doubt? the door's closed for debate. you should dump her immediately, retaining your dignity, and move on to a girl who's completely worth your energy.

 

[HandyAndy]

neeeeeeeeeeeeext

 

[muzicfreak2k3]

Not worth it at all. Dump her immediately. If she was going out alone with a guy when the two of you are in a relationship... sounds sketchy in the first place. But then, the two of them suckin face in his car for 3 hours would definitely seal the deal for me. NEXT:trouble:

 

[Luke Skywalker]

You cant have a relationship with a girl if you dont trust her. By her actions you cant trust her. Therefore you cant have a relationship with her and must move on.

 

[Mr. Wolf]

You have a chance now to learn how to be that guy, who'd take someone else's girl, takes her over to his place, has wild sex with her until 4:20 in the morning, and then lets her run back to his boyfriend... Click the link in my signature.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Is her sister hot?

 

[Answers]

You've no choice but to dump her. If you don't you'll be seen as a soft fool and she'll have even less respect for you than she has now. She might try come crawling back but you can't trust her no more.

 

[sav]

she cheated...

no matter how you put it... she held hands.. kissed the dude, and then "sat" in her driveway for 3 hours? bs.. replace SAT with FvCKED and that seems more feasible....

 

[Jerry Maguire]

Troll?

Surely.

If not, dump. Obviously.

 

[Mr Autobahn]

I have to agree with most of the guys on this thread. Your girlfriend seems to be wavering on you because what she did is not what commited couples do...

 

[Christopher Philip]

RUN....FAST lol

 

[thatguyjamalx]

Game her sister.

 

[Kev07]

why are you posting this here, dump the *****, she's probably getting fvcked by 5 other guys as we speak.

 

[Drum&Bass]

Keep her...As a Fuddy-Duck Buddy !

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Keep her...As a Fuddy-Duck Buddy !

See the problem with that is you cant do that without:

a) not trusting her account of the story and charging her for cheating.
b) seeing her as a slvt rather than a gf and thus losing all respect for her.
...which that manipulative gf will then make up a 'feeling hurt act', break-up and claim he jumped to conclusions and did not trust her.

Best revenge is to just forget about her and move on.

 

[young_gun]

"Once a cheat always a cheat"

Probably hard to deal with all this, I know man, I had a girl cheat on me a few years ago. Usually a girl will leave out a few details. When my girl cheated on me she told me she only kissed the guy, but her best friend said they were having sex in his bedroom. Bad memories. For some reason (desperation) I took her back and they were the worst 11 months of my life.

Cut your losses and just dump the bytch. You have a gold mine of a site here, and there are plenty of women in the world who would be better for you. You should have NO PROBLEM replacing her.

Trust me, if you stay together, this will be in the back of your head ALL THE TIME. It will eat away at you like you would never believe. Came home at 4:30????? That's f'ed up. She obviously has NO RESPECT for you. It doesn't matter how bad she feels, the fact is that she did it. If she respected you she wouldn't have done anything with this guy.

It's probably true that it's easier to get a new girl than it is to keep one. You probably just found this out though. Look on the bright side though, you know that girls aren't exactly always faithful to their boyfriends. This can come in handy for when you are single!

 

[amoka]

What do you expect from folks at Sosuave when you said your "girlfriend kissed another guy?" No matter how apologetic she was after commiting the act, don't expect folks here to tell you to buy her roses. Folks here don't care how hot your girlfriend is. She disrespected you and must be punished accordingly. Unless you're ready to give her another chance yourself, do not complain about it to anybody.

 

[penkitten]

why did she go out with another guy, if she has a boyfriend, in the first place?

 

[Blackhole105]

You have a chance now to learn how to be that guy, who'd take someone else's girl, takes her over to his place, has wild sex with her until 4:20 in the morning, and then lets her run back to his boyfriend... Click the link in my signature.

I don't want to be that guy...this really sucks, but I think I do need to breakup with her. If I have live with this feeling the rest of the time I'm with her it is simply not worth it. My stomach is in knots. Anger at her, anger at him, and anger at myself.

Is her sister hot?

lol