paradox/paradine said:
thanks for posting that, this blows applegoo's and danger's theory of low number of partners out of the water, most of the women on there had 4 partners and above, a lot in double digits, they dont even seem to care, its a normal thing for them.
if you asked these girls how many partners, they would lie and give a low number, then you would believe them thinking she has a low number lol
look at what 2 of them said.
Lol. Ok. It's not THAT bad anyway. 17 I think. A few drunken mistakes, a few vacation flings, a few relationships.
she doesn't even know how many men she's fvcked lol. you expect her to give you a honest answer? she doesn't care how many men, 17 men, she doesn't think its that bad, see what i mean?
we have guys on the board saying we should be with one girl, you want to be with her who isnt exactly sure of that 17?
lost my virginity when I was 18 and I was very chaste until I was 28, having just 4 partners, then something happened. I had sex with 25 men between 28 and 35. That's just 3-4 men a year during that time, of course it mathematically didn't go like that, when I met my husband at 34 I'd had 6 men that year not including him. I got married at 35, but had sex with a stranger on my bachelorette party, but I have been 100% faithful for 5 years, until recently.
Most of my married gfs have had a similar amount of men in their lives, they are all 38-42 in age. I'm surprised at some of the attractive girls posting on here that they've just had a few encounters. Girls you are not a slut for acting like a man does!.
this no surprise to me, not sure why it should be to you. she had 4 partners, then, had sex with 25 more, her friends she said did the same. she is telling women to slut around lol, fvcking some guy before her wedding, the guy she married has no idea of all those men she's fvcked.
paradox/paradine said:
No problem, I'm the OP of this thread and at first I was furious about this stuff
i'm sure you were surprised, its something that should be expected, not to get furious over.
when i take a girl home the same night, i expect her to have done it before, which means a lot of guys
even the average girl i expect her to have had more than 1 guy, the average number was 4, the average on that site you posted looked above 4 to me.
i went to frat parties where girls were getting fvcked by 2 or 3 sometimes 4 guys in one night. next week after they went out and did it again.
even fat girls have multiple partners, partners shouldn't be an issue, its those christian think tanks that make a big deal about it, crap some people believe as fact when its not.
some guys claim to have had sex with tons of women, they deny that women are having sex with more partners, that tells me they are lying and don't know whats going on out there, if they were having all that sex, they would know women are having just as much sex if not more.
applegoo said:
It's not a theory. I never hypothesized that. I instead saw multiple studies finding that a higher sexual partner count = higher divorce rate and will hold that view until there is something out there that proves the studies/surveys were faulty or if there are new studies with counter conclusions.
BTW, that thread doesn't do anything to refute or strengthen those studies I cited. For example, even if they all did say they were virgins, it wouldn't do anything to strengthen the studies I cited. The amount of girls that are virgins or not virgins has nothing to do with the findings of the studies that have been linked. What you are doing is called a non sequitur.
If you are saying there are girls in that thread who have had multiple partners before marriage but are still married, that still does nothing to refute the findings. In the larger picture, it's like someone saying all studies on cigarettes are BS because their smoker dad never got cancer. In the more specific context of the studies, they didn't say every girl who had more than 1 partner prior to marriage would get divorced 100% of the time. It just found they had a higher likelihood to be divorced as partner count rose.
You've done ZERO to actually refute any of those studies other than talk about a whole different area of marriage (overall divorce rate). If you want to refute the studies, you would have to find studies that have differing conclusions as far as partner count being correlated to divorce.
everything i posted refuted what you and danger are trying to claim, those women on that site back it up with what they posted, most all of them have had multiple partners, the majotity are in double digits, why does that surprise you in a hook up culture? those women don't care how many hook ups they did.
if they get married do you think they all are going to get divorced?
most women used to have 4 partners, not all of them got divorced, 4 partners are multiple partners.
another reason why the numbers you and danger gave is bullsh!t, is because people who get divorced get remarried, that takes away the bogus 53% claim that i refuted.
paradox/paradine said:
I tip my hat to you my good sir
what kind of hat are you tipping there op?
