Girlfriend going to Vegas..

[dice]

So my girlfriend is going to Vegas for 4 days 3 nights for a work thing. People from all over the country are going to be there and high ups in the company go. There is meet and greets and she says she's looking forward to "networking" so she can advance her career. Because of the time zone difference I'm not even going to be able to talk to her before she goes to bed. I am a wreck over this as my girlfriend is very pretty and loves being the center of attention. She has never cheated before that I know of but I am worried. I thought about it a lot and I don't think I want to be in a relationship with someone that is going to Vegas without me, and then she has another work trip in a couple of months to Minnesota which is every year. I haven't talked to her in 5 days and am seriously considering just breaking up..am I overreacting or am I justified in breaking up with her?

 

[Dingo]

Dude... Relax.... If you keep acting like this she's the one that is going to break up with you for being so weak.

You got to act like it's no big deal... tell her to enjoy...

This is a good opportunity to find out what kind of girl she really is. If she is going to cheat she gonna cheat regardless where she's at.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

So my girlfriend is going to Vegas for 4 days 3 nights for a work thing. People from all over the country are going to be there and high ups in the company go. There is meet and greets and she says she's looking forward to "networking" so she can advance her career. Because of the time zone difference I'm not even going to be able to talk to her before she goes to bed. I am a wreck over this as my girlfriend is very pretty and loves being the center of attention. She has never cheated before that I know of but I am worried. I thought about it a lot and I don't think I want to be in a relationship with someone that is going to Vegas without me, and then she has another work trip in a couple of months to Minnesota which is every year. I haven't talked to her in 5 days and am seriously considering just breaking up..am I overreacting or am I justified in breaking up with her?

What is her career and how can she possibly advance from hanging out in Vegas with higher ups? It's not like they will promote her over them.

 

[Vivacity]

She has never cheated before that I know of

Are you a watchdog for her? Does she need to go to Vegas to cheat on you? Really?

She could stay put in the city/town and bang her boss or co-worker in a restroom stall at work or the mailman in the home's basement or the trashman in the home's garage on a daily basis.

Oh my god, my girlfriend is going to Vegas. Oh my god, she is looking forward to "networking." Oh my god, she is going put her vagina to work in order to "network." Give me a fukcing break.

 

[HoneyHitter]

OP, she should be worried about leaving you behind. You'll probably be banging a new plate the second day she's gone. Just saying.

 

[Bayne05]

You sound really insecure man. Why date a hot girl if you can't handle the heat?

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

It's gonna go one way or another bro. There's nothing you're gonna do about her going so might as well suck it up. It will be quite apparent fairly quickly what happened, if anything, when she gets back.

Think about what your relationship is like when together.... is she completely devoted to you normally. Do you worry about her cheating even when she's in town? As the others have said, what's the difference between Vegas and anywhere else she might be out socialising? Ask yourself about your own behaviour, do you give her loads of attention and provide for her? You sound insecure about her anyway as you wouldn't post this otherwise.

She's gonna be approached by other blokes, that's for sure. And from what you say, she'll enjoy it. ALWAYS remember, people will often tell you a half truth to 'protect your feelings'. 'NETWORKING' = Meeting other men. Sorry to sound so cynical, but it's the truth.

What I would do is go out doing some 'networking' of your own while she's away. In fact every time she's away. The sad thing is that you never can be too sure when in relationships these days; you must protect yourself first.

Don't break up with her. Wait and gauge her behaviour on return.

There's a good chance that if you are posting your insecurities here, that vibe has already seeped in to your relationship.

 

[playa99]

You need to work on being a lot less insecure.

Anyone can cheat at anytime. Doesn't have to be out of state.

Only you know the full context of your relationship and that is a major factor as to whether this is bad behaviour or a genuine career related move.

You need to be good with being on your own to be functional in a relationship.

Ask yourself, is your insecurity the root cause of how you feel? Or is it her behaviour.

 

[MrWood]

I am going to Vegas... "networking"
prolly "bump" into her...

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

You must've never been in Vegas before. We all know what goes down there.

 

[Von]

Your insecurities will be the damn of you, especially if you posted this for as a ''reminder'' instead of a ''preventive'' behavior.

I got 3 males clients who are going to Las Vegas for work convention. Sure its Las Vegas but its also work. If you are Alpha enough she will want to go back to Las Vegas with YOU.

To cheat or dumb you, she doesn't need a place or time. She need a feeling. If you are insecure, she bounds to take 1 of the 2 paths.

Wish her good trip, set up a chat time, you go out and enjoy life with your boys.... she's out of the house for 3-4 days, in a LTR= time to do all you ever wanted, get the boy out

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You must've never been in Vegas before. We all know what goes down there.

The "networking" will be some more inappropriate communication and situations than at home and it won't be talked about, they will look forward till the next vegas thing. Whats funny is she might not realize that not congregating sexually will let her have more respect, she will always be desired, and she can simply communicate and show people a good time without exposing herself or sharing herself.

 

[Julian]

What happens in vegas stays in vegas..sin city.


Tour is over boiyo


SOOOOO many white knights/betas/idiots in this thread. LOL @ saying "oh but its work, this is professional blabalbla" dude you think after her daily "work" meetings shes gonna retire to her hotel alone to read and skype with OP? hahahha..man you guys are straight up STUPID.

Its not insecure beta to keep your chick in a fkin leash. Honestly though why would you get into a LTR with some corporate hot ass chick who's getting hit on by rich CEO mfkers all day. You cant compete bro sorry. Yeah she will come back to you..after she has some loads blown on her back in vegas. This is the harsh reality im giving you.

Face it bro, your gf is gonna ride the CEO c0ck carousel...networking an all that!

Shes hot an likes being the center of attention..yeah thats a great recipe for a faithful relationship LOL..sorry dawg

it doesnt matter how in love she is with you...if a woman is in vegas...shes gonna fuk somebody one way or the other. Sorry bro

 

[mrgoodstuff]

What happens in vegas stays in vegas..sin city.


Tour is over boiyo


SOOOOO many white knights/betas/idiots in this thread. LOL

Face it bro, your gf is gonna ride the CEO c0ck carousel...networking an all that!

Shes hot an likes being the center of attention..yeah thats a great recipe for a faithful relationship LOL..sorry dawg

it doesnt matter how in love she is with you...if a woman is in vegas...shes gonna fuk somebody one way or the other. Sorry bro

And if she wasn't going to fvck, put a couple of drinks in her and now it's a great idea.

 

[Ronaldo7]

When she is out of town, go out and enjoy yourself.

Meet new women. Carpe diem (or noctem).

 

[BrainDamage92]

"Networking" eh? "Center of attention", eh? Hate to play devils advocate, but find some girl to screw while she gone... I was living with this girl for a long time till 2 and a half years ago we moved to her "dream" city, and at one point she started taking care of her looks, stopped getting annoyed at me, puttin me down that I cant find a proper job while she is a bartender lel, and then one day she said "Im going to a sea resort with my coworkers for a week" while I was working like a fukin doug 2 jobs an all. Packed my bags and choo choo train so long *****. Lots of core trauma with this girl but non-psychos are the same. I wisened up real fast. In a convo we had months and months after that she said "I was looking for opportunities". See this what bitchez is like. Especially when they are young and not very intelligent.

What happens is youre ****ed.

See this is why you either impregnate a girl, marry her, or in reverse, then maybe get a mistress at one point, or you spin cassettes. This girlfriend bull**** is highschool ****.

And remember all women is hoes at some point or another, in some way or another, even my old lady coworker told me so the other day. You must be hard as steel and cold as ice thats it.

 

[thatfeel]

What is her career and how can she possibly advance from hanging out in Vegas with higher ups? It's not like they will promote her over them.

I'd say the specific career in this case doesn't really matter, she could be in a field that's having a conference hosted by several different vendors showcasing new tech, services, or giving keynotes and other discussions in the Palazzo or Venetian resorts. So naturally many other people who all work in that field could be there in addition to higher ups in her company if she's in a large corporate environment where she hasn't directly interacted with them on a regular basis.

There are some solid responses in this thread and I would say they're the ones that come shortly after the OP. It doesn't do the guy any good to tell him "LOL fvckin' betas when she means networking she means shes gonna go svck some d!ck". Just act aloof, treat her like the professional she (presumably) is, and do you while she's gone. Be thankful you won't have to deal with her for a few days.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I just don't think how being a young fluzey up in there is going to get her advancement potential. I wouldn't want to be seen by them higher ups unless I had already made moves that they heard about. She thinks she going to charm and get them on looks and being a "center"? LOL.

 

[Building_and_Loan]

If she is going to cheat in Vegas, then she's already cheated on you in her office at work.

Breaking up with her because she's about to go on a business trip is about the craziest thing I've ever heard. And for 4 days?!?!

Get a grip dude. I mean I could honestly understand if it was for a whole semester or 6 months or something, but 4 days is nothing.

There's nothing you can do to control the situation, so just act relaxed and don't act like an insecure beta. Tell her you're happy for her, and you hope she has enough time to see everything and play tourist. Attempting to give her rules or stipulations is just going to push her away into some other guy's bed.

 

[thatfeel]

You'd be surprised just how much of a difference it can make in getting a higher-tier job or a 'promotion' simply by just being known to someone internally. I literally was just insta-offered a job by a guy I've never directly worked with before, I just knew him, and it was a pay increase for me.