Girlfriend goes bad

[GaryUranga]

Met this chick, got her head over heels over me, it turned into an LTR.

Lasted 9 months, ended lastnight because we "both agreed" that there wasnt any "spark" there anymore, she just didnt feel it anymore.

As soon as I noticed she wanted to go that way I took it like a man and agreed on ending it, no crying no anything. I just went "yeah sparks dead I think it ends here".

Anyways I cant stop thinkign about getting back with her and all that chode **** which I know is temporary.

Does anyone here have any experience on an LTR turning into a dead spark? As in what are the common mistakes when this usually happens?

I wanna learn from it but I fail to pin point the specifics of why it turns into that.
Thanks!

 

[Die Hard]

Don't look for 'closure', that's a DJ rule just like not calling her one day after she gave her number and other rules.

Be strong and move on.

 

[st_99]

A safe rule is anything you 'feel' like doing to fix the situation, do the opposite.