Mauser96 said:
Yeah, I'd text back. I'd say "yeah, not today or any other day. Don't fvcking waste anymore of my time" .
I can't believe these chicks pull this ****, and that anyone does anyhting BUT tell them this. I mean seriously, she had no interest. Chicks that have interest are excited, nervous, and spend the day getting ready. She fell asleep????
She is a lost cause. Tell her GFY, and move on.
EDIT: I am editing this because I have reached my post limit, and to respond to LandingWood. First of all, Hyper analyze, how would telling a girl to stop wasting your time, and not to contact you again be giving YOUR power away??YOU never had any power with her to begin with!!!!!!! You set up a date, and she decided to sleep instead, and just "let you know" when you texted her when she was one hour late. How much disrespect are you willing to tolerate? FFS. When my GF and I had our first date, she told me later she spent the whole day being nervous and getting ready. THIS is how they act when they are interested. Landing wood, you suggested he not send the text I suggested. You are 18 years old. Please, please tell me what he would have to lose by telling her off? She "might not go out with him?" She isn't now!!! Guys, you have to learn to have some self-respect for God's sake.
Mauser: I like you, you know that. But your advice here is WAAAAAAY over the top.
Your support to your point is focused in the wrong direction.
Girls are going to flake. It happens & its part of the game. Do some girls flake because they have low interest? Of course. Do other girls flake as part of the game to see if the guy will chase? Definitely.
Point being when two people barely know each other, you could make your head spin trying to figure out why she flaked. In this particular case I would agree that the girl's reason was weak at best & showed a lack of regard for the OP time, esp since she didn't let him know in advance.
But its clear she's a party girl, the OP goal should simply be to smash it and have her as a FB at best.
Getting THAT angry and sending the text you suggested shows weak frame, over-reacting and most importantly implies that her flaking really got inside his head.
The better way to approach this because the OP should realize this is part of the game ESPECIALLY with girls you meet while drunk at a bar, is to not be affected at all.
A simple text back of "alright cool" then going ghost for a while would be best. Remember the goal here is get his junk wet, not gf or wive this girl.
There's two major problems I see here on Sosuave.
1) Guys chasing girls who have low/no interest
2) On the flip side, guys giving up way too easily at the first obstacle that comes there way because Sosuave has conditioned them to think a) all girls are evil/crazy/two-timing slvts b) if she flakes she's out
When you have an abundance mentality, a girl flaking doesn't mean she's cut completely (unless she habitually starts flaking). It SHOULD mean she goes to the end of your rotation and you are actively going out meet new prospects.
OP: Best way to go about this IMO is to stay cool, send a short reply "alright cool." Then disappear for 7-10 days and then initiate again, then set up another time to hang out. If she agrees great, if she doesn't then she was never planning on meeting up with you after the original night anyways.
DJ's don't over-react, they always stay cool. This is just part of the game and once you realize that, the better off you'll be. If it happens to you with different girls all the time, then figure out where your going wrong and adjust that to get better results.
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