girl with drug problems

[gameover]

there was this girl i met on the internet, i did not meet her with the intention of dating, (one of us stumbled upon the other's profile on msn messenger) and we finally decided to meet 6 months later. after meeting her and her cousin (a male in case you care), before the night was over, i found out that her cousin was a druggie and through talking to the girl in person, i highly suspected she dopes up too. i was disgusted by this and i want to immediately terminate the relationship despite that she has told me she likes me. but i would like to know how to do this in the most polite manner. any ideas anyone?

 

[MadaMadaDame]

ask her what she thinks about her brother using drugs. somehow telling her that you also have a friend that uses drug and is perfectly fine knowing it but you told your friend( the one u made up) that she should control herself and see a doctor about it, tell her that your friend agreed and is still in touch with you. See her reaction, and judge it from there. Who knows maybe she'll tell you herself if she is or not taking the drugs.

 

[gameover]

she could not be doping up and i'd still want to terminate the relationship on the simple basis that her cousin is on drugs. i dont want ANYTHING to do with ANYONE who is in related to some illegalities. if every illegal substance in the world were legalized, this would be fine and dandy. my concern is i dont want to wind up getting hauled downtown with them two if we get pulled over one night and the officer finds something on them. i have a best friend who has a brother who is a junkie and because he has completely severed all ties and does not associate with him, he has my highest regard.

 

[MadaMadaDame]

lol , as you said,

i dont want ANYTHING to do with ANYONE who is in related to some illegalities

There you go, you know the answer, any method of telling her wouldn't matter cause you won't even care a bit about her.

Just tell her that phrase you just typed.

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by gameover
after meeting her .. before the night was over, i found out... i want to immediately terminate the relationship ..

So just to clarify. You've met a girl a total of one time and you're thinking that you and her are in a relationship? If your intention was to date the girl, then go ahead and don't talk to her again. What I'd recommend doing is going ahead and sleeping with her a few times, then don't ever call her again. Or, in your case, don't ever MSN her again. It's nothing new.

 

[MadaMadaDame]

yeh lol, just dont want to post about having sex, but it came to mind also, since she already likes you, and you don't care , why not have sex with her, before blowing her off

 

[gameover]

let me clarify diablo, we met in person once, we chatted on msn and the phone. the "relationship" is currently just a platonic one.

 

[DJ_Dork]

This is one rule that guys overlook just for some pvssy or companionship:

You want to be with someone that is similar to you and may have some similar interests.

If she isn't, she will most likely be incompatible. If you're just looking for a fvck and you can do it without attaching emotion to a girl you've met, then cool. But if you can't like me, save your heart and just find someone compatible.

Sometimes you see two mismatched people who look different.. but the thing is, it's the inside that is similar while the outside the girl can be a piercing freak while the guy is a suit wearing lawyer - but on the inside their personalities complement each other and they both enjoy doing similar activities.

 

[squirrels]

How hard would it be to just stop talking to her??

You know, don't answer calls, don't answer IMs, etc...let her think you're a jackass. Who cares?