girl who works at the gym

[sbgm]

Hi!

I just renewed my gym card, and was served by a hot chick. She introduced me to the routines and I flirted w/ her a bit. (She doesn't work the times I'm going there, but I will talk to her about administrative stuff in a week. Should I proceed, and if so, how?

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

I guess you missed the other 200 threads by guys trying to bang the flirty front desk girls at their gyms.

Their job is to be flirty and welcoming. It's what they do. If they were ugly, mean and quiet, they wouldn't have gotten hired.

 

[joverby]

I guess you missed the other 200 threads by guys trying to bang the flirty front desk girls at their gyms.

Their job is to be flirty and welcoming. It's what they do. If they were ugly, mean and quiet, they wouldn't have gotten hired.

^Amen^

That's all I was thinking when I saw the title....

 

[EvilAgenda]

but I will talk to her about administrative stuff in a week

Unless you want an administrative job there, why the heck would you bring that up?

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

Unless you want an administrative job there, why the heck would you bring that up?

I think he means that he has to talk to her about payments, billing and/or other "administrative" things.

 

[sbgm]

good thinking guys hehe... next... and yes, billing stuff...

 

[EvilAgenda]

Oh, I see, Mantis. Thanks.

If you like her, sbgm, and you see an opportunity, of course you go for it. You will learn something regardless of what happens during your interaction.

Don Juan doesn't turn his power on and off, it's always present. So you always go for it.

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

Oh, I see, Mantis. Thanks.

If you like her, sbgm, and you see an opportunity, of course you go for it. You will learn something regardless of what happens during your interaction.

Don Juan doesn't turn his power on and off, it's always present. So you always go for it.

Ah, b*ow me.

I'll ask your permission next time I offer an opinion. So you won't get mad.

 

[CuriousGirl]

You'll have a lot of competition. I work at a health club and it's just full of beautiful people. Also being on front desk she's probably like that with nearly everyone, unless you can form a more genuine bond or attraction then you're just one of many guys. There'll be a fair few people she'll be particularly chatty with and that's mostly dependent on them, a lot of people just use the facilities and don't bother getting to know the staff, so just make conversation and do your thing and go from there. It's also good to become friendly with the staff anyway, you'll get better deals on things, get priorities for things like popular classes, a couple of unofficial freebies. I'm personally partial to slipping a free protein shake or coffee to my favourites. (And no not the merely the hot ones, just the members that are always friendly and chat to me)

 

[snowdog]

Just give it a shot man, you got nothing to lose.

 

[sbgm]

So, now this gym chick calls me up, being nice and saying that I have to fill out some extra paperwork. This could mean that she are interested in me, but also most likely it's just that I need to fill out some extra paperwork. I'm thinking about giving this a shot. What is the best way to ask her out? Should I even do that?

peace guys

 

[LE6END]

So, now this gym chick calls me up, being nice and saying that I have to fill out some extra paperwork. This could mean that she are interested in me, but also most likely it's just that I need to fill out some extra paperwork. I'm thinking about giving this a shot. What is the best way to ask her out? Should I even do that?

peace guys

You're losing already... Stop thinking too much. Chances are you're over-analyzing everything and she genuinely needs you to fill out some extra paper work. Worst thing you can do is play yourself.

From my understanding, she is an employee at the gym. I know you'd hate to hear this, but boss, she's nice to everyone. I'm pretty confident you aren't the only person she's called that day; there are other gym members beside you.

That said, provided you still want to pursue, you have to treat her like every other female. Get her number as quick as possible, and, contingent on her response, her interest in you will finally be determined. She gives it to you, you'd be able to count it off as more than just a professional attitude. She denies your request, then you now know the smiles, the politeness, the calls--- all strictly business.

But please man, do not play yourself. I get the feeling she is genuinely doing her job, and you don't want to have your membership revoke, or worst, by playing up on something that isn't real.