Girl wants to meet up but says "Not really looking, just going with the flow"

[GreatHornedOwl]

That seems like a big red flag to me, but she wants to grab a drink on Friday night. Something about that rubs me the wrong way.

Thoughts?

 

[Woujo]

This is great; she is basically saying "I am down for whatever adventures stimulates my emotions the most." Have a fun time, don't be needy, and feel free to get edgy and transgressive.

 

[Black Widow Void]

If she said those exact words, she's either playing it safe or providing an advance excuse to get free drinks.

If you want to find out what she's made of, then ....
Her: "Not really looking, just going with the flow."
You: "That's great! From what I hear, there are too many women that either want free drinks and/or are too clingy. Did you want to meet at 7:00 or 8:00." (end it with a period and not a question mark).

You can of course adjust the time frame, but otherwise, her response (or lack of) will be most revealing. Better to get an idea now... than to wonder.
Right?

 

[Robert28]

Make damn sure she pays for herself if she wants to talk like that.

 

[B80]

That seems like a big red flag to me, but she wants to grab a drink on Friday night. Something about that rubs me the wrong way.

Thoughts?

I wouldn't worry about it too much, certainly not a big red flag if general vibe of date was positive and you had a good time. Depends what her attitude was like for rest of the date?

Sort of thing I'd say on dates with women, keeping cards close to my chest so to speak and not appear desperate.

 

[MissouriMark]

Was this someone you met online or in person?

 

[The Duke]

Low interest