Girl wants to get her lip pierced...

[AlexTheGreat]

This girl I'm seeing wants to get her lip pierced. I'm totally against the idea because a) I think it looks trashy; b) I don't wanna kiss that; c) I don't like lip piercings. How do I get my message across that I do NOT want her to get one, and if she does get it, that I don't want to stick around? Am I overreacting in this situation?

 

[daygameguy]

This girl I'm seeing wants to get her lip pierced. I'm totally against the idea because a) I think it looks trashy; b) I don't wanna kiss that; c) I don't like lip piercings. How do I get my message across that I do NOT want her to get one, and if she does get it, that I don't want to stick around? Am I overreacting in this situation?

Don't argue. Show her that you are on her side, and THEN both of you together can look at the issue, and discuss the lameness in doing that. Give her some more options to do her thing.. like getting her hair streaked, or get her belly button pierced.

Be honest with her.

 

[AlexTheGreat]

she's already got her bellybutton and nose pierced (with just one of those little stars things). I just don't believe a lip piercing would be at all attractive, nor healthy, nor pleasant.

She asked me a couple days ago what I thought, and I said I didn't like the idea because of ^^^^^. Now I see that she asked on facebook for other people's opinions.

 

[guitaronfire411]

No matter how cool a piercing might look in the mirror for her, 90% of the population won't be impressed.

Remember that your partner is a reflection of you and your standards.

 

[theunflushables]

I like lip piercings, I find them sexy. Weird, I know, but whatever. That being said to each their own. If she wants it badly enough she will do it despite what you say and you will be seen as a negative person who isn't open to anything.

I think it is a tad bit of over reacting, but if you feel as strongly against as she is for, it might be best to move on. Don't sacrifice your principals and beliefs to placate someone else.

 

[daygameguy]

I see that you were already honest with her. But she still refused to pay any heed to your opinion.

Now you must act like a man, and tell her firmly that you don't like being with certain kinds of people who give off a negative impression. It is for her own good. And if she is to be seen with you, she has to meet a certain standard.

If she still ignores your opinion, it may be a bad sign, and you might wanna push her away a little, so she starts showing you some respect.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Just because, someone gets a peircing does not make them a bad person. Only what they do makes them a bad person. Though people judge a book by its cover alot and dont take time to see the inside...

Its her own free will to do what she wants. I think you guys are thinking way outside the box. If a girl told me to not get a tattoo or she wouldn't date me any more. I'd tell her to fvck off and date someone else if they didn't like it.

If you don't like it then, thats your opinion. But, you cannot force her to not do it.

 

[Bloke]

Petty much ?

 

[Darth]

Looks trashy and disgusting. I agree with the OP.

 

[KarmaSutra]

If she thought your ass was too fat would you change it for her?

It's the same mentality. You can have an opinion about it but ultimately you either agree to disagree about it, you can throw a temper tantrum like a b!tch or you can move on to another girl.

You have no say so in any of her decisions. She has no say so in any of yours. The trick to making any relationship move forward in harmony is compromise.

If you don't want compromise then you're goinf to end up jacking off into your socks.

 

[Bible_Belt]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153548

You are about to be single pretty soon. You might as well dump her now, because if you keep being Captain Bringdown, it's all over anyway.