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Girl @ The Gym Part 2

Disco

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So I've been checking this girl out at the gym for about a month now. Made contact last week, name etc. Well I was going to close the next day, didn't see her. That was a week ago. Today I'm jogging on the treadmill look behind me and she's working out. Also at this time one of the guys is disrupting her workout trying to take game to her. I take off my headphones and listen to some of the crap this guy is talking, really really AFC stuff. I wouldn't have noticed this without the knowledge of the site.

Like I said I wanted to take it to this girl and I had to do it now, can't be the old guy with sagging nuts right? Anyway, I get off the bike and she's by the dumbbells doing some kidn of worthless exercise. She sees me, smiles, and I say "I'm going to sit right here for a minute." I ask her the simple questions..how's your day, work, etc. Then I flat out say, so what do you do when your not at work or here? She says "nothing", I then say "cool, then you can have dinner with me next week". What happened next was weird! She said, "let me get back to you on that, I'm sorta of seeing someone but we are on the outs. If you would have asked two weeks ago I would have said yes for sure." I then say well, you know where I am in the afternoons, let me know; I'm sure we can have fun. Total eye contact the entire time. She wouldn't quit talking though as I tried to pull away. She then said "Even if we don't do that we can have a drink or something". Even better alcohol!

So I am going to get to see first hand how a chick finds a replacement and then dumps their current guy. I think I'm gravey! The only down side is that on my way home I was acting up in the car, basically dancing to some intense jam music and the chick was in front of me. I should get idiot points right?
 

Chewy Bagel

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I'd take her answer as a very positive sign that she's interested. She would not have added all the additional information such as
"I'm on the outs", and "Had you asked me 2 weeks ago, then I would have said yes" without being somewhat interested.

If the girl wasn't into you, then she probably would have gotten all uncomfortable, maybe changed the topic really quick, or just said "I'm seeing someone".

Good Work!
 

Oscar Wilde

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lol @ the last...

But nice work on the rest, that was cool, props to ya.
 

myfriendblu

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LOL, dude you got mad AFC onenitis for this chik. Be a man and move on and get some other numbers. Sto wasting precious time on one girl, LOL :rolleyes:
 

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if it doesn't work out between you two, it will be awkward going to the gym.
 

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if it doesn't work out between you two, it will be awkward going to the gym.
Getting awkward is for AFCs. Good job man, go for it, but make sure you have other prospects in case of a flake.
 

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Thanks guys. And no I'm not AFC, just lined up tomorrow night with a hooters girl, 19, can't wait for that. If the other chick doesn't pan out then she will be the one who feels awkward not me. It's not oneitus guy, it was a confirmed kill. With each kill the confidence grows into an uncontollable beast.
 

bman

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wait a few weeks then tell her you want to go out for the drink. make it look like she was begging you to go and she should be so lucky to go out with you.
 

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nice work way to grab them balls

and BTW she wanted you to talk to her weeks ago;)
 

white_hype

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Originally posted by Knicknack
if it doesn't work out between you two, it will be awkward going to the gym.
maybe awkward for you because you still have AFC tendancies... if i got rejected or something by that chick i would still workout, and not even think twice about her... id be too busy talking to other chicks and planning my next move to waste precious time thinking about a chick who missed out on the time of her life
 
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