What to do / how to react when a girl starts to talk about other guys that SHE adores/likes? For example sport stars, famous ppl and how about normal ppl like a guy that she liked 1 year ago, or a cutie that she met a month ago? She goes like "he is so cute.. i would marry him" or something like that, how to answer?
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Girl talks about other guys
- Thread starter Park
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They are testing you to see your reaction to see if it bugs you/makes you jealous. Instead of showing that it bugs you do the opposite.
hb: why just 1 girl?
hero: because boys are better obviously!
Reply with something silly that will catch them off guard and they don't expect. Whatever you do don't show jealousy instead show them you don't care what they do with some witty/funny replies.
hero: I'll be your best man at the wedding. I can't wait till you start having kids I bet they would look adorable! I think you should have like 7. You should have 1 girl and 6 boys.
hb: why just 1 girl?
hero: because boys are better obviously!
Reply with something silly that will catch them off guard and they don't expect. Whatever you do don't show jealousy instead show them you don't care what they do with some witty/funny replies.
MrP
Don Juan
This was covered in one of the books I read. She is showing you that she is desired by other guys. (Like social proof for girls). This means SHE IS INTO YOU.
On the other hand, if she starts talking about her PROBLEMS with guys, you're not doing so well...
On the other hand, if she starts talking about her PROBLEMS with guys, you're not doing so well...
Igetit!
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If this girl is someone you like,someone you'd like to date,then why are you just sitting there listening to her ramble on about other guys?Park said:
If the point of you hanging out and talking with her in the first place is to make her like and be interested in you,but she's busy going on about other guys,then YOU'RE NOT doing your job when you're with her.
You're supposed to be making her feel attracted to YOU,not letting her talk your ear off about other guys she's attracted to.
You should be busting,teasing,negging,and asking her out. If you were repeatedly doing these things,she'd be too busy feeling the emotions YOU CREATED in her instead of talking about other guys.
I'd just simply ask her out. The next time she mentions some other dude,I'd be like,"So you think (so and so) is cute,huh? Well good for you. Now,so what's the deal with me and you? When are we going out? And don't worry,I promise I'll be good for the first 15 minutes of the date".
Now,do you see what I did here? I took the frame back. Instead of us sitting there and staying stuck in HER CONVERSATION about other guys,I pulled her over into MY WORLD,MY CONVERSATION,which is about the two of us seeing each other.
So instead of talking about other guys,we're talking about the two of US.
And that's what you want. You either want her to like and be interested in you,or you want to move on to a girl who does like you.
Either one of these options is better than listening to her go on and on about other guys,especially,if you like her.
To me,hearing a girl you like talk about other guys she likes is torture.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
MrP
Don Juan
It could have been the Book of Pook. The one on this site.
Usually this only happens to me in groups of people and about celebreties maybe. Never has it happened to me about other guys SHE LIKES. I've heard about how many guys LIKE HER however.
Usually I would make some gay joke like "You two would make a bad couple, but............... ME and Tiger , damn that's a ****ing hot couple." If she doesn't really say anything you can bring it back to her. Say something like "But, I can definitely see you with ______________. Yeah, your cute little dimples (IN A TEASING WAY, and you can pinch her cheeks lol) compliment his_________."
It really doesn't matter what you say as long as it's playful and you don't actually talk about that guy for more than like 30 seconds.
Usually I would make some gay joke like "You two would make a bad couple, but............... ME and Tiger , damn that's a ****ing hot couple." If she doesn't really say anything you can bring it back to her. Say something like "But, I can definitely see you with ______________. Yeah, your cute little dimples (IN A TEASING WAY, and you can pinch her cheeks lol) compliment his_________."
It really doesn't matter what you say as long as it's playful and you don't actually talk about that guy for more than like 30 seconds.