Girl talks about other guys

[Eugene123]

I have a female friend who talks about guys who thinks that are hot and I don't react. Is that the right thing to do? if not then what is a better way to react.

When I talk about girls that I think are attractive to me, she gets jealous.

is that a good thing?

 

[hydroheathen]

I think that would depend on your relationship with her. If she gets jealous maybe that would be a sign that she is interested in you..and maybe she is trying to make YOU jealous? to test you? who knows just my 2 cents mate.

 

[Bobby Rio]

Stop all the anylization of it...

I did that for years with a female friend.

If you're attracted to her - just begin flirting with her, building sexual tension, and go for the kiss.

Everything else in your mind is just mental masturbation.

Trust me on this one...

I spent years, even writing down the reasons she probably likes me vs. the reasons she probably doesnt....

I didn't find out for sure until I went for the kiss.

 

[katatonia]

I have a female friend who talks about guys who thinks that are hot and I don't react. Is that the right thing to do? if not then what is a better way to react.

When I talk about girls that I think are attractive to me, she gets jealous.

is that a good thing?

Yeah, don't react. You have no right to anyway since you are 'friends'.

Her getting easily jealous is a good thing if you want to bang her. She wants you to be a good little AFC and sit in the friends zone and give her attention for nothing in return. Fvck that. If you haven't made a move on her yet (I'm guessing you haven't), do so now and severely limit contact if she rejects you. Then hook up with another hotter chick and if you play your cards right she should be all over you.

 

[The Comeback Kid]

You're doing fine.

When she talks about other guys, she is TESTING you. Seeing if she can get you to crack. Just keep doing the exact same things you've been doing and you'll be good.

If she gets jealous when you talk about other girls, it's putting you in the position of power. If she's jealous about it, I feel she has at least some interest in you.

Take action and ask her out.

 

[thedude4242]

I would say, boy he is hot and when he comes around tell him, hey why dont you give my friend her a good time. but then thats just me.

 

[Nutz]

When dating women I tell guys to:

A. Have standards and expectations
B. Articulate these to the woman
C. Explain what happens when she doesn't live up to them

Basic relationship 101 stuff. As for friends and casual relationships, you cannot be quite so overt. That doesn't mean you can't have standards and expectations of your own. If the person doesn't meet them then stop hanging out with them. It's not rocket science.