girl takes 24h to reply everytime wtf?

[pyros]

So I met this 22 years old chick like a month ago. We went on one date, small kiss. Then I asked her out again but she said she was really busy because of university examns, moving out of her flat etc. and suggested next week.
Next week I asked her out, we went on another date, heavy makeout, grinding etc I think I could have bang-ed her but she decline my offer to go to her place.

Now the thing is that...this girl doesnt have whatsapp (everybody here uses it instead of text messages), so we basically communicate via facebook chat BUT...SHE TAKES FOREVER TO REPLY EACH TIME. She normally takes a whole day or more to reply to my message. For example, first and second time I asked her out, I messaged her on facebook on Tuesday morning, and she replied on Wedndesday afternoon. Last time I asked her out, in order to set the logistics she replied within the same day but she took four or five hours in between each message! this is out of control really.

Now, I texted her yesterday's evening, she read it (cause fb says so), and its been a bit more than 24h and she hasn't replied yet.
It is getting annoying. I dont know why she takes so damn long each time. She says she doesnt use her phone much, and is very forgetful and doesn't like social media etc. but...
I normally wait half an hour or an hour to reply to her messages.

Any suggestions? I dont think calling would be better. I just called her once, to set the details of our first date and I told her: "ok, I'll call you tomorrow by 10 pm", and she said: "oh ok, I'll have to keep my phone next to me cause I always loose it somewhere in the house"

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

I wouldn't worry about her honestly. It sounds like she's s**t testing you. If you don't hear anything back in a day or so, maybe call one last time to try and set up a date, and if she still blows you off next her.

 

[teebear]

Low interest. You can do better.

 

[TheCWord]

This is a joke, right?

Pyros, this is the third such post you've made about an identical situation. I think you've just changed her age and some minor details each time.

Either you're trolling us... Or you're hoping for different feedback than what you've been getting (even though you've been getting good advice)... Or these are genuinely three different girls, all of whom don't use this app you're talking about, all of whom you communicate with on facebook, and all of whom have low interest in you.

If it's option 3 and you are repeating the exact same mistakes with separate girls over and over, then nothing anybody posts here is going to help you. Go back and read the advice you've already been given.

Pretty sure you're messing with us, though. For reasons I don't really understand nor care to.

EDIT: Here are your identical posts...

girls taking forever to reply/dont initiate texts

two weeks en between first and second date....

what do you do when your text is ignored?

she said she would text me but didnt

 

[pyros]

Those threads you talk about, they are from two different girls. One that never texts me, and the second one , this girl, that takes a day each time to reply. One girl is 19 and the other is 22.

The 19 years old I banged her once, and the 22 years old I just went on two dates with her, and she takes forever to reply each time which is the first time that happens to me, this is why I post about it.

 

[Krueg]

She is either really busy, weird work hours or just plain LOW Interest.. Most girls with high interests write you back right away, even wanna txt/facebook all night with you! I wouldnt give my hopes up on this one, keep meeting more women, the next one will be all over you!

 

[TheCWord]

Those threads you talk about, they are from two different girls. One that never texts me, and the second one , this girl, that takes a day each time to reply. One girl is 19 and the other is 22.

The 19 years old I banged her once, and the 22 years old I just went on two dates with her, and she takes forever to reply each time which is the first time that happens to me, this is why I post about it.

Okay so let's say these are two girls you're writing about. Why do you need so many threads about them? The answer to both is quite simple: LOW INTEREST. MOVE ON.

I mean, fck dude, it's great that you're meeting girls and asking questions on here but I don't know why you keep expecting different answers. Every detail you've shared indicates low interest. Every reply in your previous threads was: low interest. Every reply in this thread is going to be: low interest.

Seriously, don't waste time with girls who aren't interested. You'll actually build confidence in knowing you can detect low interest and walk away. It alllllways feels good to be the one to walk away. So you'll move on, only keep the high IL girls rather than wasting your energy trying to convert low IL, and your life will be so much easier. Your mind will be calmer. You'll have better relationships. Have more sex.

And best of all, you won't be wasting our time. We only get 10 posts/day man. Selfish of you to get people to waste one or two of those on a question that you've already had answered dozens of times.

 

[Alvafe]

Those threads you talk about, they are from two different girls. One that never texts me, and the second one , this girl, that takes a day each time to reply. One girl is 19 and the other is 22.

The 19 years old I banged her once, and the 22 years old I just went on two dates with her, and she takes forever to reply each time which is the first time that happens to me, this is why I post about it.

try to find more girls, and stop wondering, if she is that busy maybe you should be busy too with other woman?

 

[In2theGame]

24Hrs to reply? lol Thats way too long if a girl has high interest. If shes really busy, she will reply back within few hours max but not 24hrs. Females are ALWAYS!! checking their phones.

 

[nismo-4]

Your princess is in another castle. Or she has low interest. Whatever the case, move on. You can do better. That's how she feels.

Case closed. Get out of my court.

 

[pyros]

ok but why the heck did she go on two dates with me? and she made out quite heavily on the second one, seemed to have a good time etc?

I mean, if she's not interested she would not be going out with me, but she does. But she takes 24h to reply each time...the only solution I think off is that she's messing with some other dude. But even if this is the case, why she cant just reject my date offers and stop confusing me? it would be nice.

I've met some other chicks who were messing with some dude, they told me 'Im busy this two weeks etc' so I stopped contacting them, and a few of them texted me some weeks later willing to meet (once they stop seing the other guy).

I think she's actually a very good manipulator...because I see no other explanation.

 

[sylvester the cat]

Double post

 

[sylvester the cat]

You been here three years and you're still asking these types of questions?

Why is she doing this? Why is she doing that?

Dude, why are you allowing her to control your frame like this? Just why?

 

[TheCWord]

You been here three years and you're still asking these types of questions?

Why is she doing this? Why is she doing that?

Dude, why are you allowing her to control your frame like this? Just why?

Him and skinnyguy. I don't get it. It's like they refuse to learn. Scary thing is they have all those green dots. Maybe they just keep repping each other?

ok but why the heck did she go on two dates with me? and she made out quite heavily on the second one, seemed to have a good time etc?

I mean, if she's not interested she would not be going out with me, but she does. But she takes 24h to reply each time...the only solution I think off is that she's messing with some other dude. But even if this is the case, why she cant just reject my date offers and stop confusing me? it would be nice.

I've met some other chicks who were messing with some dude, they told me 'Im busy this two weeks etc' so I stopped contacting them, and a few of them texted me some weeks later willing to meet (once they stop seing the other guy).

I think she's actually a very good manipulator...because I see no other explanation.

Ok pyros. For what it's worth: I once pursued a girl who took 24hrs to reply to texts. Like you, she totally controlled the frame and I tried analyzing and analyzing until she became a oneitis. I caught myself, thanks in part to advice on this site that I actually listened to, and cut things off completely. Months later things started up again and this time I had the frame: I would start taking AT LEAST as long to reply as she would, but I also just had better game over all: when we did see each other I escalated quickly, etc. I definitely stirred up her emotions. She ended up chasing me hard. I was seeing someone else at the time so couldn't give her all the attention she wanted. She eventually demanded an LTR or bust. I chose bust.

Do that. Pull way back. Maybe you'll reconnect with her or maybe you won't. One thing's for sure, the way things are now? You have no chance. And overanalyzing this girl won't do you any good, it will only prevent you from moving on to a situation where you can actually have control.

 

[skinnyguy]

Low interest. Next. Why are you asking this when you know what the answer is?

 

[nismo-4]

Her interest is low and you care too much. It's a lost cause.

Women who are interested in you won't confuse you.

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