girl playing games or just shy?

[jigga23]

Im kind of confused about this one girl. Ive known of her for a while. Was at a bar with mutual friends and heard she wanted to fvck me. Then saw her like 2 years later (1 month ago) she told me she always talks about me and other sh*t, basically spilling her guts. shes a cute girl seems pretty cool. When i saw her at the bar we talked and kissed (both tipsy). tried to call her 2 days later talked for like 2 minutes nothing happened and no call back. then tried one week later talked for 2 minutes nothing happpened but she did call back this time. After that I said fvck it and got rid of her number then 2 weeks later i get a call from her to go hangout. so we do have a good time and stuff. My friend who was also there was like dude she likes you she was asking if you were a good guy etc etc. so when i left ended with no kisses or hugs or anything. If i hug her she might think im friendly if i kiss her she might think im too anxious/needy so i was just decided to play it so she wont know what i think. anyways she was like call me this week i was like yea ok...you going to diss me again? she was like i didnt diss you.and blah blah.

HERES THE QUESTION:
This girl is use to having guys come at her but i know im better than a lot of them anyways. Ive heard sh*t from her own mouth that backs it up that she tries to hustle dudes to give her sh*t. She has a lot of money though so i tihnk its just that fact she feels good when guys put her on a pedestool something i refuse to do. That could be why she dissed me at first just so I can "earn her attention" fvck that whatever. anyways when i hang out with her it seems like shes a little timid sometimes. I just dont know what to do. If shes shy then she probably wont call this weekened to hang out and just wait to see if i do. if shes playing games and i call her first i will just be like all the other guys. Should i just wait and see what she does friday (im planning to call saturday if she doesnt call on friday) I just dont know if shes shy or playing games or what.

 

[Poppa3]

I agree with Espi. SEems like you want her to make the first move or something, and it doenst sound like she is the type to do that..So there is only one way to find out.....I agree

Kiss close, see what happens

 

[xblitz44x]

"so when i left ended with no kisses or hugs or anything. If i hug her she might think im friendly if i kiss her she might think im too anxious/needy so i was just decided to play it so she wont know what i think. anyways she was like call me this week i was like yea ok...you going to diss me again?"

There is a big difference between not giving her too much attention, and fvcking up by not kissing her because you were too nervous about what she might think. If the chick was wet for you after that date, she would have wanted you to kiss her. NOT kissing her did nothing for you.

"then tried one week later talked for 2 minutes nothing happpened but she did call back this time. After that I said fvck it and got rid of her number then 2 weeks later i get a call from her to go hangout."

I don't understand why you got rid of her number after she did call you back. "She called back so I got rid of her number." That doesn't make a whole lot of sense to me.

I also don't understand how you think she's playing games. She called YOU to hang out. She asked you on a date. Do you know how rare that is?

The problem is that even though you're manipulating your actions in everyway possible to convince everybody that she's NOT on a pedestal, the sheer fact that you're changing your gameplan and going through this much trouble and analyzation proves that she IS on a pedestal. Do you see?

If she truly wasn't on a pedestal you would be acting the same as you did with every other chick. But because you perceive her to be 'hot' and 'wealthy' you feel like you have to do something tricky or fancy. Stop it. Be you. She's a woman and at their core they all operate the same way.

 

[blueangel83]

Think about it, you're the man, you should make the first move...she's waiting for you.

Men who expect women to chase them are p*ssies, it just doesn't seem right.

 

[jigga23]

my game is not chasing them even though i want too. i just feel that it works better for me atleast, if they make the first moves. makes them work therefore once i give in, which is not too hard for me to do then they feel like they got the prize.