Girl lost intrest! Need help

[Tacboy]

So there is this chick I work with and durring lunch break and any other time she had free she would come chat with me and sit next to me. Everyone could see she wanted me and I have no skills with the ladies so I just treated her like any of my other female friends. now there is a new guy at work and she is spending more time with him. any tips to get her back looking my way? I don't want to look like some nerd and just start jocking her.

 

[Phyzzle]

I have no skills with the ladies

You need some skills with the ladies.

See the link at the bottom called The DJ Bible? You don't have to read the whole thing, just "Questions for newbies" right at the beginning.

 

[Delta]

going AFTER HER at this point is a lost cause.

you want her to chase you, if you chase her it does not inspire desire on her end... only perhaps repulsion.

the key answer and philosophy here is that you simply NEXT HER.

she's not worth it. and you guys don't really know each other from a hole in the ground (romatically speaking). forget it and move on.

seriously the answer for men is NOT persistence in chasing any particular woman. cast a wide net and go for someone who does not NEED CONVINCING!

added bonus is that if you are aloof and things don't work out with the other guy, she might still be drawn to you.

delta