girl looking at your shoes

[espanish]

while talking to me this girl kept looking at my shoes. my friend told me either your shoe lace was open or she was into you. is that true? when a girl is into you she keeps checking out your shoes?

 

[bat soup]

while talking to me this girl kept looking at my shoes. my friend told me either your shoe lace was open or she was into you. is that true? when a girl is into you she keeps checking out your shoes?

Is she cooperating? That's the question that matters.

 

[espanish]

Is she cooperating? That's the question that matters.

this is a woman that I have to be professional around, so nothing sexual about the encounter. the reason for our encounter was professional and she kept looking at my shoes, then at my face, then again at my shoes. If I was wearing my shoes that have a hole in them I would think she is judging me for the hole, but I was wearing my good shoes.

 

[bat soup]

this is a woman that I have to be professional around, so nothing sexual about the encounter. the reason for our encounter was professional and she kept looking at my shoes, then at my face, then again at my shoes. If I was wearing my shoes that have a hole in them I would think she is judging me for the hole, but I was wearing my good shoes.

A girl that likes you would come close to you, lean towards you, touch you casually, want to know all about you, suggest meeting up outside of work, look into your eyes, etc.

If she's looking at your shoes that's unhelpful, therefore I would say she's probably not attracted and not worth pursuing. Especially if it could put your job at risk.

I have heard that sometimes staring at person's shoes is something that you can do if a person is staring at you and you want them to stop, so maybe she felt like you were staring at her and it made her uncomfortable. And god forbid a woman should ever feel uncomfortable.

 

[Machine10033]

while talking to me this girl kept looking at my shoes. my friend told me either your shoe lace was open or she was into you. is that true? when a girl is into you she keeps checking out your shoes?

No... a girl that’s attracted will look at your face/eyes while talking to you.

 

[Mike32ct]

No... a girl that’s attracted will look at your face/eyes while talking to you.

Yup. The flip side is that women are absolute masters of AVOIDING eye contact with guys they aren’t attracted to.

 

[Billtx49]

while talking to me this girl kept looking at my shoes. my friend told me either your shoe lace was open or she was into you. is that true? when a girl is into you she keeps checking out your shoes?

Generally speaking a person that keeps their eyes downwards during a p2p convo signals submission or flat out shyness on her part.

 

[Paper Crane]

honestly this is so vague.. i dont know how you can expect someone to have a real answer for you.

but if she was glancing at you head to toe from a far she was checking you out bud.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Unless your wearing a badass pair of recraftable Allen Edmonds, Fords or Ferregamos

 

[Paper Crane]

It says OP is 38 years old.

If true, it's sad as heck that a grown. a$$. man. has to ask that question.

i dont think so man. it all depends on context.. and to be fair, i'm pretty sure this forum has people from all around the world where cultures can vary greatly in their non verbal cues and communication.

 

[Paper Crane]

I guess.

It just seems like a lot of guys are just so socially clueless. I can't imagine being so clueless as to come onto a forum and ask a question about a girl who looked at my shoes.

I agree about that. It's tough man it can be cringey but at the end of the day.. We all lead different lives and nothing really surprises me anymore lol

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Nevermind the shoes, check out my ride

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

She's not going to be impressed with a 2004 Schwinn bicycle.

Bicycles are actually in extremely high demand right now and none more than a Schwinn, jokes on you

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Apparently. Now go back to your room and wait for mommy to tell you dinner's ready.

Why would I do that when I can chase women, not all of us sit on a forum spitting resentment and bitterness all day, there is more to life than SS, for most of us here anyways.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

You 'chase' women? Come on, one of the main pieces of information you get from this forum is to not chase them.

Not all of us, how do you and your like say, 'choose' to be celibate.

You are clearly projecting your hatred for yourself onto everyone else on the forum, its sad to watch but we've had guys like you come and go who criticize the process but offer nothing to be criticized in return... Your too busy trying to legitimize yourself here to provide any decent quality information, worse, your using insults to achieve that end and worst of all, your not very good at it.

You quoted me in your other post saying you were leaving, I don't really care one way or another but rage quitting a forum in 2021 is about all the character development I need to see from you.