Girl just ended 3 year relationship: Go for it?

[Sofomore]

So I met this girl who was in a 3 year relationship. Apparently it ended about a month ago. We made out some, but I am a little hesitant because I dont know what the fvck im getting myself in to. When I first kissed her she kind of pulled back a little with a "I dont know if I should do this" look. I asked her what? and she said she just got out of a 3 year relationship and that I'm the first person (besides a girl), that she has kissed. Later, we kissed again but I could feel more passion/agression to it.

Should I tap that a$$ or run for the hills? I have some other plates spinning but this girl is FINE!

 

[muscleman]

Is this a serious question? What does her 1, 2, or 3 year relationship have to do with you? If she wants you and you want her, tap it. I would only be cautious if she was previously dating a serial killer, but that's unlikely.

 

[starplayer]

So I met this girl who was in a 3 year relationship. Apparently it ended about a month ago.


Should I tap that a$$ or run for the hills?

No you tap that a$$ THEN run for the hills.

Don't get emotionally invested or start thinking of a relationship whatever you do. Don't be Rebound Guy.

 

[DarthNihilus]

Star player said it.

Don't get emotionally invested in a girl that just got out of a relationship as you will be the rebound guy and she will drop your ass once she's got her emotions in check and can start going for a new man that she'd really want to have in her life.

Being a rebound guy associates you closely with the negative feelings she had from her failed relationship.

Which is a huge part of the reason why she'll want to ditch you eventually.

So hit it for a couple weeks or two or three months and then quit it.

Don't let yourself fall into a relationship with her out of your own laziness, stick to your plan of getting sex and then hitting eject.

She's not the last hot woman on the planet for you to be with once you move on from her so don't ever be afraid to let her or any other hot chick go.

 

[Sofomore]

Thanks for the good advice guys. I will make sure to peace out after a few weeks. No rebound Guy.