WillieSacks
Senior Don Juan
Ok so I met this chick a month or so ago at a party. Called her up 5 days later, I'd call her, she'd return my calls or whatever. We went out on a date. The date was cool. Everything went well or whatever. So anyways we go on a second date to play pool. I can tell she's feeling me, she laughs at my jokes, compliments me on how cute I must have been when I was a kid or whatever.
Anyway everything seems cool but for some reason when I put kino on her she's reluctant to be receptive, like I put my arm around her and she's slow to put her arm around mine, stuff like that. She eventually gets to it but it seems like she's not sure.
I notice a red flag one time when we were having a conversation. I was talking to her and I guess I said something like 'do you want me to call you later since you're driving' and she goes 'whatever bye' and hangs up on me. WTF. I try to ask her what that was all about and she tells me not ot bring up old stuff or she won't talk to me anymore (this was through text)
Anyway I let it slide and go on a 3rd date with her, I want to make a move b/c it's the 3rd date and I want to see where we stand. Hte 3rd date, we go window shopping and she's really touchy feely like hitting me when I crack on her and what not. SHe even says that I was the first guy to ever take her out on a date (other than prom or dance) and I go 'theres a first time for everything.' So anyway the date ends at her friends place and I decide to leave so she follo2ws me out and she gives me a big hug and she lets to then I try to kiss her and she goes 'no' like a little girl and head buts me and I'm confused as hell. SHe even told me that she doesn't like playing games and I could tell she was feeling me. SO it was awkward, it was the first time that ever happened to me, I was lookign at her like WTF. I like you and you like me, so whats the problem. SHe goes "I don't know, I guess I just wasn't ready, don't take it the wrong way, I like you but it just hapened so fast and I wasn't ready" and basically she just kept saying I don't know and don't take it the wrong way. So basically, talks have died doiwn the past couple of weeks b/c of that. I've been messing with this other chick I banged on the first night to keep my head clear but we still talk. It's just that I'm very impatient when it comes to that. We've been talking for 5 weeks and I still haven't even made out with her.
I haven't been able to bring her to my crib b/c there's no privacy and I don't go to her place b/c of the same $Hit. Anyway I talked to my boy and he said that it seems like she's just intimidated by me. BTW she's 19 years old and I'm 21. It seems like every girl I've dated under 21 has some screw loose but every girl 21 and over I've dated, I've made out with or had sex with on the 1st date. COincidence?
I haven't gone out with her since, b/c I'm reluctant to spend money on some chick that isn't giving it up. If it means anything it seems like she has low self esteem. I say stuff like 'I like you' and she says stuff like 'nobody likes me' stuff like that.
The other day I asked her if she just wanted to be friends and she was surprised that I asked her that. She was like "I still want to talk to you and if I didn't want to talk to you, I'd tell you"
I was even talking to her saying that if she was messing with someone else, it wouldn't be my business anyway and she said that it would and it would be shady if she didn't tell me.
She seems like a good girl to me but she's taking things too slowm that's why I'm messing with other people on the side but still taking to her. What would you gusy do?
Anyway everything seems cool but for some reason when I put kino on her she's reluctant to be receptive, like I put my arm around her and she's slow to put her arm around mine, stuff like that. She eventually gets to it but it seems like she's not sure.
I notice a red flag one time when we were having a conversation. I was talking to her and I guess I said something like 'do you want me to call you later since you're driving' and she goes 'whatever bye' and hangs up on me. WTF. I try to ask her what that was all about and she tells me not ot bring up old stuff or she won't talk to me anymore (this was through text)
Anyway I let it slide and go on a 3rd date with her, I want to make a move b/c it's the 3rd date and I want to see where we stand. Hte 3rd date, we go window shopping and she's really touchy feely like hitting me when I crack on her and what not. SHe even says that I was the first guy to ever take her out on a date (other than prom or dance) and I go 'theres a first time for everything.' So anyway the date ends at her friends place and I decide to leave so she follo2ws me out and she gives me a big hug and she lets to then I try to kiss her and she goes 'no' like a little girl and head buts me and I'm confused as hell. SHe even told me that she doesn't like playing games and I could tell she was feeling me. SO it was awkward, it was the first time that ever happened to me, I was lookign at her like WTF. I like you and you like me, so whats the problem. SHe goes "I don't know, I guess I just wasn't ready, don't take it the wrong way, I like you but it just hapened so fast and I wasn't ready" and basically she just kept saying I don't know and don't take it the wrong way. So basically, talks have died doiwn the past couple of weeks b/c of that. I've been messing with this other chick I banged on the first night to keep my head clear but we still talk. It's just that I'm very impatient when it comes to that. We've been talking for 5 weeks and I still haven't even made out with her.
I haven't been able to bring her to my crib b/c there's no privacy and I don't go to her place b/c of the same $Hit. Anyway I talked to my boy and he said that it seems like she's just intimidated by me. BTW she's 19 years old and I'm 21. It seems like every girl I've dated under 21 has some screw loose but every girl 21 and over I've dated, I've made out with or had sex with on the 1st date. COincidence?
I haven't gone out with her since, b/c I'm reluctant to spend money on some chick that isn't giving it up. If it means anything it seems like she has low self esteem. I say stuff like 'I like you' and she says stuff like 'nobody likes me' stuff like that.
The other day I asked her if she just wanted to be friends and she was surprised that I asked her that. She was like "I still want to talk to you and if I didn't want to talk to you, I'd tell you"
I was even talking to her saying that if she was messing with someone else, it wouldn't be my business anyway and she said that it would and it would be shady if she didn't tell me.
She seems like a good girl to me but she's taking things too slowm that's why I'm messing with other people on the side but still taking to her. What would you gusy do?
