Girl is ignoring me now?

SuperMan19

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BackGround:

I met this girl last semester and we hit it off so well that I decided to get a class with her this semester to get to know her even better. The semester started out well, talking to each other in class and then walking together out of the building together.
I have this girl screennname on my buddylist and she is the one that usually intitate the conversation.


Problem:

This past couple weeks, i noticed that things seem weird. Like i will wait for her to finish her exam and then walk with her thru campus together, wait for her to get her stuff and etc. Now, when i come out late she goes ahead and not even wait for common courtsey like i do, whenever i see her on campus, she don't even acknlowgdge me anymore. She stopped IM'ing me whenever i log on. Now i'm STUCK seeing her everyday in class and we don't even talk no more. I do not have a clue to what the hell just happen this past couple weeks. Things were going so well until i started to notice this bad vibe. The question is how should i play this off?. Should i also not wait on her @ss, continue waiting for her when i get out of class, or just not care no more. And for the Instant message, should i completey block her off. Dammit i got to see her tomorrow too and the bit%h shield is so powerful with her that sometimes i think about just skipping the class. much help needed!
 

SDBmania

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How about....

Maybe she is just having a ruff week. I would ask her how she is doing, maybe see if there is something going on in her life that is stressful or sad. It's possible that she is dealing with something right now. I would initiate convo. Show her that you care, but don't seem like your obsessive or something. Just do what you would do when a best friend is acting weird.
 

Cremasta

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Next time you see her, walk up to her, say "Hi, how are you", if the response is lukewarm, then just ask her "have I done something?" take it from there.
 

Disco

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It all sounds stalkerish. Sorry, but does she know that you took the class just to get to know her better?
 

ScrewIt

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coldness

based on the information... she thinks your playing the "nice guy" routine

it seems that she thinks you like her, and is trying with all means to avoid contact w/you anyway that she can.

why does it matter to you if she ignores you if you have no feelings for her?

you guys may talk a lot and see each other in school, but it doesnt mean that she's put you in the friend category.
probably at least in the acquaintence category.
 
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