Girl is crying - What to do in this situation

[zorg198]

Hello,

I am asking this just to understand the situation ....

If you like a girl but you are not GF & BF and she's crying for some reason what a guy needs to do in this situation.

Personally i am a person who just see this and walk away since i am not attached to my feelings so much...

kind of a weird question but i would like to hear your opinion.

 

[bricks]

give her a bunch of non-descript, un-labeled vitamin c pills and tell her you'll help her commit suicide. fetch her a glass of water. stroke her hair a couple of times. look serious. bite your lips. then leave.

 

[zorg198]

give her a bunch of non-descript, un-labeled vitamin c pills and tell her you'll help her commit suicide. fetch her a glass of water. stroke her hair a couple of times. look serious. bite your lips. then leave.

lol, this is what i always do, though i am doing something wrong.

 

[Packers2010]

I had a girl cry because she couldn't *** when i was fingering her. just say something like its ok and move on man,

 

[Gray The Prince]

Easy, take off your belt and tell her to shut the fvck up or you will give her something to cry about.

 

[zorg198]

LOL.... i know its a stupid question.

usually i just ignore it and move on but i thought i am doing something wrong not treating her right..

 

[zorg198]

what i meant is no matter what is the reason she's crying is it good idea to come and comfort her? will this looks like you are a wuss or whatever?

 

[SgtSplacker]

I use it as an excuse to say something that might turn her on to me later.

 

[zorg198]

such as?

 

[Upside]

This really is context specific. 95% of the time you just let her do what she needs to do and either leave her be. The other 5% you can be the shoulder she cries on, but beware becoming the emotional tampon.

 

[zorg198]

This really is context specific. 95% of the time you just let her do what she needs to do and either leave her be. The other 5% you can be the shoulder she cries on, but beware becoming the emotional tampon.

yeah... i don't want to be where the 5 % are.