Ok a little background.
Met this HB9 a several weeks ago. Have seen her a handful of times around campus since. Everytime I see her, we always chat for a bit and she always seems happy to see me and comes to me.
I go to her sorority formal (not with her but another girl) I see her again, when I see her she comes right up to me and is happy to see me, gives hug. etc I introduce myself to her date (who is huge like 6"6.)
OK formal ends.
See her again next day at dinner in cafeteria. Comes up to me again I say hi to her and her huge date etc., and make a joke about how he is so big! One of her friends says, hey that is her bf. So I am like ok whatever.
Fast foward to yesterday almost a week later. She sees me going up a stairwell in an academic bulding on campus. She calls my name and walks all the way up the stairs to come see me. I don't move. Then she tells me that she just sent me an email. So I am like "cool! what is it about?" But she wouldnt tell me. So I continue to chat her up and make her laugh etc. I then make another joke about her huge bf and how he is so big compared to me! She laughs. Then she tells me that the guy isnt her bf and they are just friends and that he came out to school to visit her b/c they dated over the summer or something and this was his last attempt to try to get her back or something like that. (I really wasnt paying attention just nodding my head)
Then I say I have to go and continue on my way.
I get back to my room and check my email having no idea what this is about and she sends me an email which basically says. "Hey its kelly, remember me from xyz? I know we don't know eachother very well, but I would kinda like to change that. So if you get a chance email me back maybe we can get together this weekend to study..talk. I just want to explain myself cause I think you might have the wrong idea when it comes to some things. Have a great day. hopefully i will hear from you soon."
And then she leaves her screenname at the end of the email.
So I read the email and am like.. hmm is this girl interested in me? My DJ insticts tell me yes.. but then I am wondering what she means by do I have the wrong idea about her? Does she not want me to think she has a bf or something. Or does she think all the times I have seen her she thinks I have been coming on to her? Which I personally don't think is true cause I talk to a lot of girls the way I talked to her when I see her around on campus.
So I am thinking that she sent me the email b/c she wants to get to know me better and wants to talk to me and tell me she doesnt have a bf.... or is it something else? girls are confusing.
So..... since school ends in 6 days, I won't really be able to play the challenge part so instead of waiting 2 days to reply to this email I wait about 7 hours.
I reply with basically:
Of course I remember you. And I know you enough to know that your awesome and wouldwant to get to know you better. So we can definently change that.
I added you to my buddy list. My sn is [xyz]. however, let me also get your number and i'll give you a call.
Have a good night. we'll talk soon.
--my name
So i send that to her last night and now it is today and still no reply(that pisses me off b/c i want her to reply asap... now she is using dj moves on me lol). THis is why I hate email and this is why screennames are the worst. I don't plan on IMing her or emailing her until she reponds to my email. If she gives me her number ill call her and go on a fun date with her sometime soon and see what she has to say.
Anyhow what does everyone think of the situation? I have never had a HB9 email me like this and initiate the first move....
Met this HB9 a several weeks ago. Have seen her a handful of times around campus since. Everytime I see her, we always chat for a bit and she always seems happy to see me and comes to me.
I go to her sorority formal (not with her but another girl) I see her again, when I see her she comes right up to me and is happy to see me, gives hug. etc I introduce myself to her date (who is huge like 6"6.)
OK formal ends.
See her again next day at dinner in cafeteria. Comes up to me again I say hi to her and her huge date etc., and make a joke about how he is so big! One of her friends says, hey that is her bf. So I am like ok whatever.
Fast foward to yesterday almost a week later. She sees me going up a stairwell in an academic bulding on campus. She calls my name and walks all the way up the stairs to come see me. I don't move. Then she tells me that she just sent me an email. So I am like "cool! what is it about?" But she wouldnt tell me. So I continue to chat her up and make her laugh etc. I then make another joke about her huge bf and how he is so big compared to me! She laughs. Then she tells me that the guy isnt her bf and they are just friends and that he came out to school to visit her b/c they dated over the summer or something and this was his last attempt to try to get her back or something like that. (I really wasnt paying attention just nodding my head)
Then I say I have to go and continue on my way.
I get back to my room and check my email having no idea what this is about and she sends me an email which basically says. "Hey its kelly, remember me from xyz? I know we don't know eachother very well, but I would kinda like to change that. So if you get a chance email me back maybe we can get together this weekend to study..talk. I just want to explain myself cause I think you might have the wrong idea when it comes to some things. Have a great day. hopefully i will hear from you soon."
And then she leaves her screenname at the end of the email.
So I read the email and am like.. hmm is this girl interested in me? My DJ insticts tell me yes.. but then I am wondering what she means by do I have the wrong idea about her? Does she not want me to think she has a bf or something. Or does she think all the times I have seen her she thinks I have been coming on to her? Which I personally don't think is true cause I talk to a lot of girls the way I talked to her when I see her around on campus.
So I am thinking that she sent me the email b/c she wants to get to know me better and wants to talk to me and tell me she doesnt have a bf.... or is it something else? girls are confusing.
So..... since school ends in 6 days, I won't really be able to play the challenge part so instead of waiting 2 days to reply to this email I wait about 7 hours.
I reply with basically:
Of course I remember you. And I know you enough to know that your awesome and wouldwant to get to know you better. So we can definently change that.
I added you to my buddy list. My sn is [xyz]. however, let me also get your number and i'll give you a call.
Have a good night. we'll talk soon.
--my name
So i send that to her last night and now it is today and still no reply(that pisses me off b/c i want her to reply asap... now she is using dj moves on me lol). THis is why I hate email and this is why screennames are the worst. I don't plan on IMing her or emailing her until she reponds to my email. If she gives me her number ill call her and go on a fun date with her sometime soon and see what she has to say.
Anyhow what does everyone think of the situation? I have never had a HB9 email me like this and initiate the first move....
