Hi there,
I've been seeing and dating this girl at my uni for about 4 months now. In that time its been developing into quite a serious relationship. However, one thing that i'm increasingly noticing about my girlfriend is the amount of guy friends she has. To start with this didn't bother me however, as we are getting closer i'm starting to dislike it. She has photographs plastered all over her room with her and other guys (who she says are just m8s), she also has a so called guy friend ringing her up on a saturday night to see 'if she wants to go and see a band'. Although I know she's really into me, and the photographs were before we were dating and she doesn't ever go out with her guy m8s I can't help the fact that i'm starting to feel uneasy about the situation. After all would she be happy if I had photographs of me with various girls all over my wall, and for girl m8s to ring me up on a sat night, em I think not! Also a few weeks ago we had a bar crawl, and as with most you get t shirts where you can write on, and I noticed in the photos (not at the time cause i was too pissed lol) that someone wrote 'I love ****' on her neck. I know it sounds pathectic but I can't help feeling rubbish about all this. So far I have been a challenge, used ****y & funny etc to create and sustain attraction however now i really feel for her I'm getting these feelings. What can I do or rather what would you lot do/ think if you were in my situation? Cheers people
I've been seeing and dating this girl at my uni for about 4 months now. In that time its been developing into quite a serious relationship. However, one thing that i'm increasingly noticing about my girlfriend is the amount of guy friends she has. To start with this didn't bother me however, as we are getting closer i'm starting to dislike it. She has photographs plastered all over her room with her and other guys (who she says are just m8s), she also has a so called guy friend ringing her up on a saturday night to see 'if she wants to go and see a band'. Although I know she's really into me, and the photographs were before we were dating and she doesn't ever go out with her guy m8s I can't help the fact that i'm starting to feel uneasy about the situation. After all would she be happy if I had photographs of me with various girls all over my wall, and for girl m8s to ring me up on a sat night, em I think not! Also a few weeks ago we had a bar crawl, and as with most you get t shirts where you can write on, and I noticed in the photos (not at the time cause i was too pissed lol) that someone wrote 'I love ****' on her neck. I know it sounds pathectic but I can't help feeling rubbish about all this. So far I have been a challenge, used ****y & funny etc to create and sustain attraction however now i really feel for her I'm getting these feelings. What can I do or rather what would you lot do/ think if you were in my situation? Cheers people