Hey thanks for the advice on the DJ backlash post i really needed it. Okay well hear is the deal i have this one girl that i like alot and want to hook up with. i dotn really know her so im just goin for tail but i am willing to go the long relationship as long as it gets me closer to her. we have been talking and hangin out at the pool alot and flirting a little bit. she asked me for a ride home today too even though she didnt need one b/c she had her mom. i didnt want to look like a doormat so i didnt give in right away. but anyways i hear she has very high standards. and i am good with her other girl friends and told them im interested so thy are helping me out as well. and on the way to her house i was making conversation and stuff like that and i think that she was kind of nervous or uptight. at first she didnt talk all that much untill i got some conversation going. and she said goodbye about 2 times and stoped and waved and smiled when i drove by. i was just wondering if these are good signs and such. i just want to learn from this so i can keep striving for the dj.