Girl I have been seeing sucks at kissing?

[Alexxx_Wilder]

I took this girl out to a movie on friday and I drove her back to her car. I said I will see you later she said okay bye.

When she was getting out of my car she said thanks for the hug.
So I got out of the car to give her a hug and when I leaned in to give her one. She tried to give me a kiss but I didn't get the vibe that she was about to kiss me.

After I hugged her she then gave me a kiss no tonuge or anything.

So today I take her to lunch and we have sometime left over. We decide to take a walk in a quite little street. We started to hold hands and I wrapped my hands around her waist and grabbed her azz. When I got to my car I said are you ready to go back she said no. So we started to kiss and this chick had her tongue all down my throat. She was kissing all fast and really aggresive.

When I was in the driver seat she tried to sit on my lap and I started to feel on her just seeing how far I could go.

She nice she has a body on her. I am no rookie in this game. I just have never dealt with a chick who sucks at kissing. I don't want to be rude and say your doing it wrong.

What should I do?

 

[b_elusive_eyes]

Get her home in your bed and turn up the intensity....music..wine..caressing...etc...go down on her and get her off...get her caught up in the rapture..this should spark her to get more passionate and better at loving and kissing....or just guide her to let go of her emotions and get busy...you have to push some girls buttons to bring them outta their shell.....and some girls flat out dont have a pulse for sex and never will.

 

[Alexxx_Wilder]

Maybe I posted wrong but she jumped my bones. She just was kissing all fast and her tongue was moving all crazy.

There's two things I want to know

1. He she just a bad kisser or Is she uneducated about kissing

2. I have been on 3 lunch dates and took her to the movies once. Next date should I go for sex.

I have been passive about sex because I am messing with other girls too. She always wants to hold my hand and I started feeling on her breast and azz and her puzzy and she didn't stop me.

 

[killerasp]

well....it seems like is she kissing like how she sees it on TV. She could be inexperienced in it but dont let her know that. It will be a turn off. If she does that next time, let her know in a C&F way. She starts jamming her tounge down throat, stop kissing and tell her. "Hey girl...i still need my tounge intact for eating". If she is going to fast stop and tell her...."whats the rush? do you need to use the bathroom?" that would be my take on the situation.

 

[Quick]

You can show her without being confrontational or embarrassing her. Make sure that the next time you kiss her make sure that you're on "top" and she's up against something. When you start kissing and she gets aggressive, pull back a little. Go in to kiss her again, and when she gets intense, pull back again. Then look into her eyes, smile, and say something like "This is my kiss, you can have yours later." Then you slowly go in and show her how you want her to kiss you. Every time she wants to take control, you stop, back up an inch, and then smile again. Basically, you train her out of her tendencies. You can even say something like "let me lead." She'll catch on how you want her to kiss you, and if she doesn't completely get it, you do the same thing the next time you two kiss. If she's not an idiot, it won't take more than a couple of times before she realizes without you saying it that you have a problem with her kissing style, and she will adapt to how you show her.

 

[the_gunslinger]

my ex licked my teeth when we were kissing once. needless to say that was the last time i saw her. it was like kissing a horse, i yawned, she licked!!!!

 

[BruticusMaximus]

I seem to end up snogging lousy kissers more often than not. I once started thinking it was me but I have had some amazing kisses in my time so that sort of rules that out.

Last girl I kissed just opened and shut her mouth at high speed like a manic goldfish.

She probably thought I sucked too. Maybe it's just all about compatibility... there might be a guy out there who kisses the right way for her!

 

[Shiftkey]

I've been in your exact same situation.

Don't say anything. Kiss her like how you like to be kissed and she'll eventually learn. Sometimes first kisses between two people suck just because you're not used to what the other person likes. For all you know, the last guy she dated liked being kissed like that.

 

[sneaker]

man i made out with a girl like that at the club once.. we were dancin and all of a sudden out of the blue she lays one on me(slut). OMG this was the worst kiss i've ever head. FVCKING TORPEDO TOUNG!!!! i thought i was going to die. her toung was so strong man. i had to try hard to keep that thing at bay. she might've thought we were making out but i didnt... i was fighting for my life.

 

[DraGon_luv]

To be the best kissed you have to be able to adapt to the girl,

if she is kissing you liek that then she probly wants to ****,,

do it,

are there any threads on kissing??


i remember i found the dj site bause i was looking at kissing teqnighes, ever since i stayed, i am a really good kisser but i would'nt mind get a refresher

 

[Shiftkey]

tamale try reading the post before you reply so you don't sound like so much of an idiot. Here's a summary in case you can't read very well:

She did kiss him and he didn't like how she kissed.

 

[MR_PERFECT]

This thread is funny. There is more to kissing than your slow, boring style. I've learned various ways of kissing by letting girls in my past show me what they like to do. Sometimes you need the passion to show, it's sounds like that's what she was showing you.

 

[felony]

HAHA posts by sneaker, maximus and gunslinger have me cracking up so bad!

No dramas, just kiss her how you want to be kissed and she should follow suit. Then you can adapt this for what manner you want to be kissed- when and where.

*ignore tamale.

f.

 

[Liz]

Originally posted by Quick
You can show her without being confrontational or embarrassing her.

Good idea! What he said. She will learn.
Good luck

 

[rbd]

Originally posted by Alexxx_Wilder
Maybe I posted wrong but she jumped my bones. She just was kissing all fast and her tongue was moving all crazy.

There's two things I want to know

1. He she just a bad kisser or Is she uneducated about kissing

2. I have been on 3 lunch dates and took her to the movies once. Next date should I go for sex.

I have been passive about sex because I am messing with other girls too. She always wants to hold my hand and I started feeling on her breast and azz and her puzzy and she didn't stop me.

Been there, done that. I was a bad kisser at the start, but I was also a quick learner. When you're kissing, you might want to play a bit of a game, tell her to follow your cues. If this kind of deal doesn't work, I'd genly tell her to slow down a bit, then demonstrate it. Just remember, this is nothing major IF she has the ability to learn and refine her technique. If she doesn't change anything, she's a hopeless kisser, LOL. ;-)

*Gets out a bottle of wine and sits crosslegged at a patio table in a french garden* ...Good kissing is like a dance, it's improv of course, but there is a certain rhythm to it and a certain communication going on between the lips of the two involved. That's what I find at least. I'm not very experienced with it, but I've kissed enough girls to know the best kissers are the ones that catch on to a rhythm and play in it.

Most girls (at least the ones I've kissed in the 16-19 crowd) aren't really good at it. But that's all relative, as the first girl I kissed was amazing at it and she taught me well. ;-)

Robby

 

[drZaius09]

tamale, where the f*ck did that come from?
Has it been 28 days already?

 

[Umbra]

I'm an assh*le, I guess. I dated a girl who sucked at kissing once. It would frustrate the hell out of me, and at first, I tried to be polite. I would just stop kissing when she did something bad, like trying to swallow my face. But then I got so pissed off, I told her:

"Look, I'm going to be an assh*le. But I want to tell you the three cardinal rules for kissing a guy.
Rule #1: Fresh breath
Rule #2: Tease with your tongue. Don't invade with it.
Rule #3: Don't open your mouth so wide that our lips don't even touch any more."

Yep, straight up said that to her face. You know what she did? She got better at kissing. Girls go for assh*les. Whatever.

And BTW, guys. The user named "tamale" is what we call a "troll." They make offensive or stupid remarks simply to stir up comments and arguments. They are scum. Don't let that user waste your time, and don't confuse that user with the real user "tamales." I think the derive the term "troll" from fishing, but I'm not sure. Such as when you "troll" for fish. Basically, that's what's happening. The user is trying to bait and taunt you until they hook a response. Best response is to ignore.

 

[Vronski]

Kissing is a matter of taste. Everybody likes something different.

Just tell her that tongue jamming is a turnoff for you and you prefer to do it slow. She'll be ok