Girl sends me a text while hanging out with her ex (she's single right now; but obvious they still have feelings for each other)...
Says the past few days that they've hung out have been horrible. That she's bored. He's rude, selfish, etc. She can't stand him anymore.
My natural DJ reaction was that I didn't want to be the nice guy who was her emotional tampon while the boy she was with was a jerk while (physically) around her... so I wasn't in the best of moods, didn't give her that beta vibe.
In fact, I was a bit of an arse to her. She was insulted. I do not supplicate. How much would this impact a girl's decision to branch swing / branch FLING?
After analyzing it in my head now... maybe I pushed that branch swinging Jane away from my Tarzan?
Doubting that decision to be a bit of a jerk now. In hindsight, maybe I should have shown her some beta traits, the exact opposite of her ex?
Any input from you master DJ's would be appreciated. I think I'm so scared to show vulnerability that I put on a jerk facade a majority of the time. At the same time, I don't like showing that nice side via text. Too much room for misinterpretation.
Says the past few days that they've hung out have been horrible. That she's bored. He's rude, selfish, etc. She can't stand him anymore.
My natural DJ reaction was that I didn't want to be the nice guy who was her emotional tampon while the boy she was with was a jerk while (physically) around her... so I wasn't in the best of moods, didn't give her that beta vibe.
In fact, I was a bit of an arse to her. She was insulted. I do not supplicate. How much would this impact a girl's decision to branch swing / branch FLING?
After analyzing it in my head now... maybe I pushed that branch swinging Jane away from my Tarzan?
Doubting that decision to be a bit of a jerk now. In hindsight, maybe I should have shown her some beta traits, the exact opposite of her ex?
Any input from you master DJ's would be appreciated. I think I'm so scared to show vulnerability that I put on a jerk facade a majority of the time. At the same time, I don't like showing that nice side via text. Too much room for misinterpretation.