This girl at my work was on her last day and left me a note with her #/email on it before she left. Ive waited a couple weeks already but i was thinking to hold off a bit as i has some thing s to take care of. Is there such a thing as holding off too long?
Girl gives me # on Valentines Day
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Yes there is such a thing as waiting to long.
But you have nothing to lose by trying. Contact her and meet for a drink.
But you have nothing to lose by trying. Contact her and meet for a drink.
sageproduct
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WTF why would you wait a couple weeks? At the very least I'd think it's common courtesy to respond promptly to a woman who is taking a risk and throwing herself out there for you
It says "spread rep before giving to sage again" but yes. You have waited for much too long because you are chicken.
I know dude- I was there. This cute girl working the cash register a couple of years ago gave me her number on a piece of paper. Actually, she was too shy so she gave it to one of the cooks, who then gave it to me.
I waited so long to call that by the time I finally did, she wasn't interested.
Lesson learned: When you have a number, call quickly to lock it in and/or before you lose your nerve. (no 3 day wait garbage because then you'll put it off).
Although I should add that if you personally feel like calling in 3 days, there are no real hard and fast rules.
Just don't wait 2 weeks man. Never again.
DonDiscovery: The advice was for the OP specifically as well as anyone who is a procrastinator. For rest of us, there are no rules b/c inner state trumps all.
I know dude- I was there. This cute girl working the cash register a couple of years ago gave me her number on a piece of paper. Actually, she was too shy so she gave it to one of the cooks, who then gave it to me.
I waited so long to call that by the time I finally did, she wasn't interested.
Lesson learned: When you have a number, call quickly to lock it in and/or before you lose your nerve. (no 3 day wait garbage because then you'll put it off).
Although I should add that if you personally feel like calling in 3 days, there are no real hard and fast rules.
Just don't wait 2 weeks man. Never again.
DonDiscovery: The advice was for the OP specifically as well as anyone who is a procrastinator. For rest of us, there are no rules b/c inner state trumps all.
DonDiscovery
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3-4 days about the right time? definitely not 2 weeks.
EDIT: Darth, is that piece of advice for newbies or everyone?
EDIT: Darth, is that piece of advice for newbies or everyone?
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.