girl cold for two months..don't know what to do!

[Chilz Swayze]

Girl situation ..hlp
Ok I have been talking to this girl
for some time now for three weeks
now.I gamed her using
the text game,using ****y and
funny,teasing,flirting and sexual stuff, she
responded well,made her laugh alot
and she liked it.she's one of those
girls who gets it,we hit off quite
right.Told her to meet and we did on two occasions.But now she went all cold on me about two months ago and from there we haven't really connected..thought I would break the ice by texting her but don't know how to go about it,need some help on how to go about it...plz!

 

[pdx1138]

It's obvious she isn't interested.

An interested girl will not get you into a "I don't know what to do" way of thinking.

drop the idea of being with her and meet someone else.

 

[VladPatton]

It's simple, man. She did all the work for you, she lost all interest in you. Happens to all of us, just move on to another one and stop getting hung up about it. The more you think about it the less you will progress.

 

[Kbomb]

you didn't escalate physically. Women don't like men who don't know what they are doing. Shows inexperience which is the mark of an undesirable man.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Dude... seriously. There is NO such thing as text game. Texting KILLS relationships. Unless you're doing it to specifically plan out a date, everything else you do texting-wise is a waste of time. Save it for in person.

In reality, you don't know how she responded to your text because you weren't there to hear her laugh or see her roll her eyes at what you were saying. You assume an "LoL" indicated she found what you were saying funny. Not always the case. And even if she did, it doesn't mean she felt a connection with you. The only way to build up a genuine connection is when you meet with them in person. You essentially wasted 3 weeks texting this chick when you should have been dating and/or hooking up with her.

If she hasn't responded to you in 2 months, it means she's not interested. Point blank. What, you think after date number 2 she got Alzheimer's disease and forgot who you were? If she wanted to be around you, she would have contacted you by now or responded to your texts/calls/whatever. Move on, dude, it's been 2 months already.