girl blocks me on facebook..

[Jair213]

dated this girl like 5 months ago, we were never friends on fb we went out only 1 time and it was a fail date to the least

a week ago i deside to look for her on fb just for curious reasons, and i couldnt find her then i log out to search and BAM there she is. Would there be any reason for her to do this? i absolutely havent talked to her at all since that one date it has bein months...

Why would she do this?

 

[cordoncordon]

She flat out didn't like you for whatever reason.

Remove her from your thought process.

 

[Zerro]

Who the hell knows, I've had a chick block me as well and she was friends with me. Just all the sudden she vanished and a friend confirmed that her profile still existed. Whatever it was it was rather immature.

Several months later she showed up at the same club I was at one night and was eying me all evening. However after that stunt I wasn't going to give her the time of day anyhow.

 

[Skalioppe]

It's usually one of three reasons :

1. Friend Cull (I know people with hundreds of "friends" (yeah, right) and have a clear out cull from time to time, removing people they aren't talking to.)

2. Dislike / Irrelevant to them. They don't like you or have no interest in having contact with you, simple as.

3. Like you too much. They liked you so much it's hard for them, and so they are trying to move on and forget about you.

In your case I'd bet a testicle on it being 1 or 2. It was a long time ago, it's done, so man up, forget about her and move on.

 

[Jair213]

yeah well

its cuz before the date we were like infatuated with each other texting back n forth, n then bamm we met and its like it went down hill, didnt talk to her no more only a couple of times she texted me after the date witch i replied too but she never texted back to the last text that i had replied from her and that was it..

after the date i didnt text her at all she was the one to text me, it just wasnt the same no more but she stilll kept on initiating contact...

anyhow, pretty sure theres no reason for 1 and 2 though, and i doubt its number 3 also

its not about manin up or moving on cuz i simply dont care i just found this to be interesting..

 

[Jair213]

Who the hell knows, I've had a chick block me as well and she was friends with me. Just all the sudden she vanished and a friend confirmed that her profile still existed. Whatever it was it was rather immature.

Several months later she showed up at the same club I was at one night and was eying me all evening. However after that stunt I wasn't going to give her the time of day anyhow.

well done!

 

[Skalioppe]

i think it`s definitely number 2. It's not number 1, bc when people cull you fromt their facebook they just cut you as a friend, they won't actually block you.

Doesn't that depend on her privacy setting?

But bottom line is that women are cold and ruthless, and your best option is to try not to make sense out of why they act crazy like they do.

Women are the most irrational and ruthless creatures on Earth, you can never fathom what they are thinking, it's some fvcked up mentalist nether world up there in their head.

 

[Jair213]

i think it`s definitely number 2. It's not number 1, bc when people cull you fromt their facebook they just cut you as a friend, they won't actually block you. The only time they block you is when (1) they REALLY don't like you or (2) they like you so much that they have to delete all memory of you. Since you guys only went on one date, it's definitely not the latter reason here.

I would normally have concluded that you guys hit it off really well over text but then when she met you she didn't like how you looked or your personality. No offense OP and I have no idea what you look like, but knowing women like I do it was most probably due to your looks. However, bc she msged you after the date this leads me to believe that maybe she was on the fence after the date and your text msging sealed the deal for her and led her to cut you off. Maybe she kinda liked you but sensed your lukewarm responses to her after the date and she decided to get you back? On the other hand, the fact that you're still thinking about her 5 months later leads me to believe that something about your actions or words must have told her that you may be a clingy guy who will be very persistent and she blocked you on fb to send a clear message to you that she was not interested in even being friends with you much less dating you.

More facts here would be required to get a better sense of what happened. But bottom line is that women are cold and ruthless, and your best option is to try not to make sense out of why they act crazy like they do. Just forget about her and let her wreak havoc in some other guy's life

the thing is we were never friends on facebook.. never initiated contact there wen i started talking to her i deleted it cuz i was spiining plates, so i immmediately deactivated it, she persisted for me to get it back but i didnt want too i used to tell her that i was tired of it that is all, she never really gave sh*tt for it or suspected anything fishy.. i just wanted to keep fb out for that reason..

i figured that yeah she didnt find me atractive enough but in the other hand she told my cousin ''hes cute but i didnt feel a connection''... i was like ok?

 

[Jair213]

well yes but when you remove a friend you either simply unfriend them or you have to specifically arrange your privacy settings to block a person. And normally I don't think people go out of their way to specifically block someone unless they really don't like the person or are trying to send a message.

so she went that far to even go on privacy settings etc? lol wtf

 

[juicywa]

its not about manin up or moving on cuz i simply dont care i just found this to be interesting..

you do care brah, why else would this thread be here?

 

[Gray The Prince]

It's just Facebook...

 

[bcolon]

It's just Facebook...

You would be surprised how many people take Facebook serious.

 

[Jair213]

you do care brah, why else would this thread be here?

nah i dont bbrrraaahhh, its just really insteresting.




the thing is that i had this girl really hooked on the texting before we even met it was like a total dissapointment after dating.. lol

 

[Jair213]

you guys were never friends on fb?? WOW this chick's f*cked you better be glad you didn't end up in a relationship with her or even just banging her girls like this are hardly ever worth the trouble.

She most probably did this to send the message to you that she doesn't care. She was trying to get you back bc you didn't reciprocate the attention she showed you after the date.

she probably started listening to all the romantic songs that i sent her and that got her to block me? lol

 

[nismo-4]

Your princess is in another castle. You know this. She knows this. And this is just Facebook.

Erase this girl from your mind now! And spin more plates! Judge's orders.

That's the best thing that is for you.

Case closed. Get out of my court.