Girl blabbing on about hard to impress and likes to next

[scrapperdog]

I got a number and called and she seemed agreeable to a date but then blabbed on about how hard she is to impress and how most people dont get a second chance.

I am wondering what is going on here? Does she not actually want a date and is trying to get me to back out or is she playing some kind of head game trying to set herself up in a position of power, but does actually want a date?

I told her I was not going to put on a dog and pony show trying to impress her and I dont care about probably not getting a second chance cause I am doing this for my entertainment and for fun, and dont expect anything to come of it anyways. Is this an ok response? She is about 30 years of age, I am a little older. I am a RFAC.

Thank you for insight.

 

[j0n024]

Umm hello are you new?? lol Welcome aboard and shame on you for not saying hi to everyone! I am a lot younger then you so take my advice with a grain of salt ok.

I think you should just next her that instant, she is sh1t testing you by seeing if you get intimidated by what she say's about not getting a second chance with her and it's either her way or you guessed it the highway. I think you should call her up and tell her it's not working out and you wish her a good life and hang up dont wait for her to respond just hang up , you dont owe the women anything espically your time since that is the most important posession of anyones. Now with this situation she might freak out becasue the tables have turned and she didnt "Dump" you and will call and call trying to set something up or she might just say "Whatever" and never call. I think it's good that your changing your way's and becoming a better person overall and I applaud you for that but remember to read the DJ bible and keep those plates spinning. Good Luck


PS: If you come to this site alot and post you will see me say this alot so dont freak lol...but I wanna see a pic of you(not gay just curious and have a thing about pics lol)

 

[Andromax]

Sounds like a wierdo.. who the hell knows what she really means.

If you still want to go out with her, let us know how it turns out.

 

[Obsidian]

it sounds like your response was pretty good. I'd try to make the date cheap and fairly quick, if I were you, because she sounds like she might not be much fun to hang out with. Don't get stuck doing anything expensive or drawn-out. If she acts b1tchy then get rid of her.

 

[scrapperdog]

Ya I did wait a year and a half to post my first message. In that time period my eyes have been opened a bit... talk about clueless, and I still have a long ways to go but at least I have some real information now. God Bless whoever is responsible for this site.

I am not that worried about the girls intentions, just kind of curious about them and was hoping to get some light shed. Obsidian raises a good point that did not cross my mind... maybe she wants a date and said all this to try and get me to spend a bunch of money on it.

I actually will go out on a date with her if I can make it happen but mostly it is because as a RFAC I need dates with girls so I can get to get into practice to work on my game techniques. Now I am not as scared of failure and rejection as I was, so I have a lot less to lose by a busted up date. Mostly I was just concerned if I responded as someone with a pair of nuts might.

 

[ready123]

she probably thinks she's making herself look desirable to you by saying crap like that - like she's advertising herself as high value to bait you into chasing her so she feels validated. but she's coming across like a wierd ***** instead

at 28 I'm watching my female friends complain about how everyone else is getting married except them and watching the standards of what their future husband should be descend into reality. a girl at 30 with an unrealistically egocentric view of guys could have self-esteem issues she's trying to mask. Especially if she just brought the "hard to impress" sht out of nowhere

how hot is she?

 

[oakraiderz2]

Flip the script. Make her qualify herself, which im sure she would do in a heartbeat.

 

[scrapperdog]

how hot is she?

Average with no kids. I guess that means she does not really think she is a princess who only deserves the very best eh?

 

[Bonhomme]

Your "no dog and pony show" response was right on.

 

[MooseGod]

Okay guys...let's take Joe AFC off the street and teach him some random game techniques...say ****y/funny and all that stuff about making yourself the prize and DHV and all that crap. But he's still awkward, inexperienced, and doesn't believe in what he's selling (himself.)

Now let's give him a sex change and let him go out in the field trying to find the DJ in a field of chumps and jerks. Sounds like your girl?

I think you handled the situation like a champ.













...and for you kids who snacked on paint chips back in the day, I'm not trying to say this chick is a transvestite. Jeez.

 

[ready123]

Average with no kids. I guess that means she does not really think she is a princess who only deserves the very best eh?

yeah she's probably faking it. kinda like guys who take the alpha male thing to the extreme to hide the fact they're actually pvssies

 

[guru1000]

What she did was DEMONSTRATE HIGHER VALUE.

And your response was NEUTRAL.

End Result = She has HIGHER VALUE. It will not work out.

Conversation should have went like this:

Her:"Men have to impress me and most dont get a second date."

You: It's funny you bring that up. I have a similiar problem. The women I have been dating lately as well have been trying to impress me , but none of them have IMPRESSED me enough. So when they call for a second date, I am not too interested. This seems to be a recurring thing. All my X's have been QUALITY 10's. So what is it about you that makes you think you will IMPRESS ME ENOUGH?

Her: You have the wrong girl sweetheart, I don't try to impress anyone.

You: Well neither do I, but at least I am letting you know what I expect up front.

The one with the "Higher Value" wins.

Who takes home the trophy?